140>I hate my life and i wish i was aborted when my mom had the chance, and dont give me bullshit of what if i was in a loving family,thats bullshit theres very little chance that would have happened i lived in a half-ased foster home with half ased perants. And dont give me bullshit about an aborted child finding cures int he future or what not ,what about the more than 90,000,000 WANTED children who live in the U.S. dont they have a better chance to find a cure for cancer than the few unwanted children,unwanted children have better chance that they will become crminals or dictator or a drug dealer. its dangerously optomistic to think that the majority of unwanted children will be left in a loving family, the reality the real reality is the majority dont go to loving homes espicially since you dont want gays to adopt kids, i swear to god one of these days im going to lose it and go to one of those anti-abortionist groups and make them pay for the suffering that they have caused me.
Reply:i think that abortion should be legal...theres too many women that get soooo silly that there should be no abortion. its none of their business, if a person wants to have abortion, let them have it. their sin, their problem.
Reply:Sad!
Reply:You need professional help.
Reply:Who said that your parents even considered an abortion?
Reply:Can%26#039;t we all just get along and hold hands?
Reply:The gift of life is ALWAYS the gift of rebirth and renewal. You possess that ability to be what your past is not. The only thing that holds YOU back is courage to stand alone and change.
Sieze the Day. Love and be Loved. Choose Happiness regardless. Help those who do not want help.
Reply:uhhh..... maybe you should talk to someone..... sounds like you could use someone who will listen..
Reply:You sound like a bratty teenager having a temper tantrum because your parents told you no
go kiss you parents and thank them you loving you
Reply:That%26#039;s probably true that the majority of families are not happy families. As society has continued - especially in the U.S. - I think the pervasiveness of sin and degredation has really affected the family unit.
Reply:You%26#039;re obviously depressed, but you%26#039;re blaming the wrong people. I%26#039;m no fan of the anti-abortion people, either, but they%26#039;re not the reason you%26#039;re alive.
Obviously, you have access to a computer. You probably have enough to eat and have had some education or you couldn%26#039;t be writing this. I%26#039;m not going to tell you there are people worse off than you, because that doesn%26#039;t help you. There are free services with people you can talk to. Now that you%26#039;re here, try to make your life something you can enjoy rather than despise.
Reply:You are a very sad person (especially since you can%26#039;t spell). I say you stop feeling sorry for yourself and stop trying to make everyone else feel sorry for you and go make a difference in your own life. Do something about what you don%26#039;t like. And don%26#039;t give me that bullshit that you can%26#039;t. Get out of school, get a job, and make your own life. It doesn%26#039;t do any good to just sit there and feel sorry for yourself!
Reply:Your life is not supposed to be like that. You chose to be like that, for Christ is love and in Him you can find life. the world has nothing to offer, but suffering. that is the wage of sins or broken up with God, but God gave His son to die for us that we may be free from it.
Reply:I highly doubt anti-abortion groups had any say in your mothers choice. Once a woman%26#039;s mind is set on having an abortion, she has it. Anti-abortion groups aren%26#039;t going to change her mind about killing an innocent fetus or giving it a CHANCE to be something great in life.
Also, a lot of people have it way worse than you, try thinking about that the next time you want to blame the world for your angst.
Reply:This is what happens when people force their beliefs on another... The anti-abortionists seem dfine with legalizing rape and with letting the mother die. They don%26#039;t seem to give a damn about the kids in orphanages who are being abused... or the kids in families being abused. Festering hate is a dangerous thing. If it grows too much it will explode, and i would hate to be in the path of that.
Reply:What would you suggest in the following situation?
A women has tuberculosis, and the father has syphilis.
Together they had four children.
* Their first child was born blind...
* The second child was stillborn...
* The third child was deaf %26amp; dumb...
* and their fourth was born with tuberculosis.
They%26#039;re now pregnant with their fifth child.
Would you recommend that they abort this child?
If you said yes, you just killed Beethoven.
Every baby won鈥檛 grow up to be a Beethoven, but doesn鈥檛 every human deserve the chance to make the most of their life?
Reply:What you seriously need is anger managment classes to get a healthy way to vent your anger!
There have been people in worse circumstances than you have been in, and they have made a life for themselves and succeeded in life!
Why you cant, is beyond me, so I would go to your Church Pastor, School Councelor and ask for some HELP! As you seriously need it and you need to be in counceling right away!
I hope you get the counceling that you need and will be praying for you...
I wish you well..
Jesse
Reply:You know what%26#039;s funny, people think you are full of crap or that something is wrong with you. They don%26#039;t realize that you have valid points and unfortunately there are situations in which a person is better left un-born. A mother is raped, she wasn%26#039;t financially ready for the kid, now they both have to live life in a neighborhood and her life is totally off track. Maybe she never finishes school, maybe he becomes a gang member and kills 20 ppl. You never know.
And I%26#039;ve known adopted kids that didn%26#039;t have silver spoons in their mouths. They are often kinda screwed up in the head. Even those with a silver spoon have a higher chance at being screwed up in the head. Trust me, from where I am from, this world would be a lot better if more people would have had an abortion instead of having more kids so they could get a bigger welfare check. These people make up 30% of the prison system%26#039;s occupants. These over-priveledged people never knew what it was like to live in a place where 1 in 10 don%26#039;t go to prison. They just don%26#039;t get it.
Reply:i%26#039;m glad you weren%26#039;t aborted....and the reason it you are you and there is no one else ever created that has been or ever will be. now if you never do anything in your life except lead a good and decent life then you will have contributed more than most people ever do. if you decide you want to become a criminal and screw people over just because your biological parents were idiots then that is truly sad.. the choice is totally up to you as to what you want to do in life but understand no matter what you do or what you become you affect others for the worst or for the better and good does come out of bad so don%26#039;t think you can just create havoc, hate others and be nasty and good won%26#039;t come of it...because it will. as for the anti%26#039;s causing you suffering...nah, it isn%26#039;t them thats causing it...you are, you are using the excuse that you didn%26#039;t have parents who cared to hate others...take a responsibility for yourself, you%26#039;re obviously old enough but to keep blaming others like your parents or anti-abortionists or anyone else for your anger and hatred is just plain stupid....how about you take all of that venom in you and do what a lot of other orphans/foster kids have done...do something good, break the chains of hatred, anger, self hate and feelings of worthlessness....you deserved better than to be abandoned by those who should have loved you BUT you are not unloved or unwanted...this world needs people just like you with your experiences and your creativity, thoughts and passion....hang in there, not everyone is a jerk, whether they are parents, anti%26#039;s or anyone else. i truly feel sorry you feel so lost....you deserved better.
Reply:It is obvious that you are in a very low state of depression. You say %26quot;Why didn%26#039;t my mom have me aborted when she had the chance?%26quot; Maybe there is a reason why you were given that chance to live. The decision has been made, and there is nothing you can do now. You are alive. You are a person. Now it%26#039;s your turn to make a choice : to either sit and wallow in self pity, or to get up and make your OWN life. No one else can give you what you want. You yourself have to make what you want happen. You are the one responsible for your own life. We can all sit and wonder %26quot;why wasn%26#039;t I born into a rich family?%26quot; or %26quot;why am I alive?%26quot; or %26quot;I wish I was someone else%26quot;. However, we have to make the conscious choice to realize that life is a gift, and work hard to make life what we want. If you feel you are unwanted, make yourself feel wanted. Make yourself SOMEBODY. Because you are. You just haven%26#039;t found it yet. Yes, so many people who feel unwanted become criminals, etc... but that%26#039;s because they choose to. They didn%26#039;t want to actually work at something to make their lives better. They were LAZY. Yes, lazy.
You live in a country where you have so many ways to make your life better. What about the countries where kids actually have a reason to feel like they don%26#039;t want to live because they HAVE no other option then the depressing situation they live in? You spit in their faces. You stomp on their graves when you say %26quot;I wish I was aborted when I had the chance.%26quot; Take a chance. Work hard to make your life better. Say %26quot;Screw my parents and my family. I am going to do my life MY WAY. I am valuable to ME.%26quot; Don%26#039;t let them rule your life and your feelings.
Praying for you.
Reply:I%26#039;m really sorry you have had such a hard life. My heart goes out to you. However, killing babies isn%26#039;t the answer. You are still young and you have the opportunity to make your life much better than it is. You may not believe me now, because your problems may seem as if they will always be and never end.
Our problems change throughout life, c%26#039;est la vie. You may or may not have the best foster parents, but you won%26#039;t have to live with them forever. You can go to university and live there on campus, and become your own person. In fact, even now, before university (if you are still in school, I don%26#039;t know), you can join some kind of youth group at your school, community center, church, or synagogue. There is always hope for you, please don%26#039;t give up on yourself, and please start looking for specific ways you can improve your life. Everything we do in life is a choice, your hands are not tied.
You are a very strong person. God never gives us more than we can handle. You may or may not be happy, but you know what? You%26#039;re handling it. You%26#039;re getting through this. You are going through it because you CAN, because you%26#039;re very strong. I admire you, please look at ways how you can admire yourself. I%26#039;ll be praying for you.
Reply:I don%26#039;t usually agree with Don, but I do on this one: sad.
Reply:I%26#039;m truly sorry for the life that you%26#039;ve had, but you prove my point exactly. Those Pro Lifers talk about being pro life, but what about pro living? Not one of them was there to help your mother with you, and if she thought that she could have given you a good life, she wouldn%26#039;t have wanted the abortion in the first place. As it is, they are extremely expensive, and for a young woman on her own, the money just isn%26#039;t there to pay for it. Again, adoption isn%26#039;t always the best thing for the child, as you have proven, because it%26#039;s trauma for the now living child, even to be in the system. And most people don%26#039;t even want anything but babies anyway. You didn%26#039;t mention it, but I bet if someone adopted you as a newborn, by the time you got big enough, they probably brought you back, and you were placed in foster care till you were of age. And I just bet those foster parents were just in it for the money anyway to ease their consciences. They need to not only give the woman the freedom to make a choice, but also make it more affordable, so that abortions can be performed before the 3rd month.
It%26#039;s really too bad that Pro Life, doesn%26#039;t mean Pro Living.
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