446>I think reading this in 5-7 minutes would be better than listening to the news in a lifteime.Plz don%26#039;t think I%26#039;m a very old person.Just 18.A university student studying English who just cannot sit back and hope.
My question is: what percentage of what I say is acceptable to you?
This article has three parts: 1.Cultural and general info 2.music and 3.political, so plz read it from the top to the bottom.
Hi.I%26#039;m Iranian and I live in Iran.When I chat with people from other countries, I understand that they have totally wrong ideas about Iran.I just wrote this article to correct you.
The first thing they accuse our government of, is that they don%26#039;t let you be free.Actually, Iranians would be some of the most liberal people in the world (liberal meaning not obeying laws that they don%26#039;t like).Thousands of millions of strict rules in other countries, don%26#039;t even exist in Iran.Also, you should understand that what may seem so normal to you, may be a nightmare for us and vise versa.That%26#039;s why you don%26#039;t understand a few of Iran%26#039;s laws.In Iran every single house has a sattelite. Sattelite channels had a serious influence on people, they wear very fashionable clothes.Maybe it%26#039;s a kind of immitation, but still it%26#039;s got an unique Iranian style. People wear fashionable scarves to make themselves more attractive and most part of their hair is out, also it%26#039;s a part of our culture.Iran is one of the super-consumers of cosmics! People do whatever they wish to and some of the things they do, don%26#039;t fit our culture at all, however it%26#039;s normal in Iran.You really need to pay a visit to Iran and you%26#039;ll be surprised seeing the difference between what you imagined before and how the real Iran is! It%26#039;s wonderful.The Iran you know, is related to at least 30 years ago.At present, everything%26#039;s so great if you don%26#039;t take unemployment and air pollution into account.So many things have changed so far.I can%26#039;t even compare Iran with 5 years ago, let alone comparing it with 30 years ago!!!! After all, nearly 65-70% of Iran%26#039;s population is considered the new generation (The youth) and they%26#039;ve transformed everything.
Some people think women don%26#039;t have any rights in Iran! What would you tell me if I tell you that women are now overtaking Iran? They%26#039;re treated very well, most of the times they%26#039;re the winners in most cases: They get into the best universities.They get the best jobs.They%26#039;ve got rights that have made it difficult for men to marry them, because husbands buy them expensive things and treat them very well, otherwise women will have the right to ask them a great amount of money which most husbands cannot afford. (so, they can simply sit in the corner of prison! lol).The only thing that women are not allowed to do in Iran is getting into public football stadiums and that%26#039;s just because IN IRAN, such places are usually full of cheeky guys who would cheek girls.I don%26#039;t think girls would go there, even if they%26#039;re allowed to do so.As far as I know, not many girls in Iran are interested in football!
Another funny thing: Your footage about stoning the women who have committed adultery.Have you ever asked yourself they relate to how many years ago?Just for your information, those are from Afghanistan which was once ruled by those freaks (Taliban).I find it difficult to make you understand that Iran, Iraq and Afghanistan are SEPERATE COUNTRIES! and that we%26#039;re Persian and some Turkish not Arab! And I find it even more difficult to make you understand that Iran is a normal country like any other countries in the world.There%26#039;s nothing mysterious about it!(The media is very good at making scary titles: BEHIND THE CLOSED DOORS!!! IRAN UNDERCOVER!!! This would be enough to scare people away! Iranians are much more educated, intelligent and open-minded than what you think!!! I%26#039;m sure you don%26#039;t know that there are lots and lots of Iranian geniouses and scientists that are all under 25.You don%26#039;t hear about their discoveries and inventions on TV. A small example is this 17 year old boy who%26#039;s invented 72 amazing inventions.You don%26#039;t know that Iranian students and sportsmen are winning gold and silver medals in different compotitions in the world all the time such as robotics, biology, maths, physics, sports, anything! Why don%26#039;t the media talk about them?Did you know that the countries having the highest number of scientists in the world are in this order? 1-India 2-Korea 3-Iran
A few weeks ago Iran uncovered the most effective anti-H.I.V medicine and now it%26#039;s signing treaties with other countries to export it.I digged the news on the internet, but there was no single sign of that.What I found instead? %26quot;President Bush CLAIMS that bomb parts are imported from Iran into Iraq!%26quot; The media are injustice.They%26#039;d put CLAIMS on the headlines, but they would never talk about facts! Some interesting facts:
Iran is the pionier in medicine and genetics and Iranian surgens have found lots of new methods for treating spinal defects and many other diseases (mainly the treatment for different types of cancer) and the the best brain and heart surgens are Iranian surgens.The head of Mars Mission in NASA is Iranian.One of the best designer of sports cars working in Germany is Iranian.Some of the best 3D animators are Iranian.Iran is one of the best countries in counter-engineering.Holds the second place in building dams.The 4th highest tower (Milad tower) in the world is in Tehran (which you can visit in the second link).The champion weight-lifter is Iranian.The woman, and a song by one of the pop singers who/which won the nobel peace prize are Iranians. And as you all know, Iranian girls are famous for being terrific.Persian rug and Persian literature, many Persian poets and scientists that are so famous.Persian culture is now westernised and only a little has survived! According to statistics Tehran is the cheapest capital city in the world for foriegners with Dollars of course not for us! (Cos our rate is different: one Dollar=about 950 Tomans!) Who do you think is building Dubi?Arabs?No my friends, Iranian architectures, engineers and traders funding them, cos they don%26#039;t think building the same things in Iran would be beneficial for them, Since the media scare tourists away from Iran.There are many other things.And also, Iran is a very independant country.It has nearly all the developed industries and technologies and doesn%26#039;t need other countries to survive! That%26#039;s why the unfair U.N sanctions don%26#039;t bother us! The list is endless.
Some charactristics of Iranians would be: Proud, greedy, hard-working, intelligent, ambitious, not realistic, not so religious, not so generous, not punctual, impatient, well-dressed, formal, well-educated, warm and friendly and hospitable.
Some people think, Iran%26#039;s a desert! Iran%26#039;s a modern country with very beautiful nature and lots of historical places to visit.Please take a look at the following links and see if Iran looks like what you think or not! (Surely it doesn%26#039;t!)
This is a photo of Tehran: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/co... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tehran
If you like you can visit these too, hope you like them:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Hills...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Jhcfj...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Dariu...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Kish-...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Dariu...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iran
Some people think music is forbidden in Iran.Did you know that Iranian pop music has won the prize in France in 2005? All Iranian songs are current pop /Trance/ DJ music.I send them to my American and Canadian chat friends and they all admit that it%26#039;s the best music they%26#039;ve ever heard.They specially love the beat.
You can just right click on the links below and choose %26quot;Save Target As%26quot; to download them.You%26#039;ll love Iranian style.It%26#039;s nothing like what you expect! You can read the translations in here: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
(I just want you: pop%26amp;Trance 2003) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...
(The window: pop%26amp;Trance: 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(Stop world:pop 2006) http://www.sarzaminmusic.com/Sarzaminmus...
(Hold my hand:pop 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...
(The wind%26#039;s kiss:pop%26amp;Trance 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(Keep me in your memory:pop 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(Reveal your visage:pop 2004) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(It%26#039;s beautiful:pop 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...
(My bride: DJ 2006) http://www.sarzaminmusic.com/Sarzaminmus...
It%26#039;s now 2007 and people still think we are uneducated people living in deserts, riding camels and carrying around guns!!!!
See how the media are fooling people? None of the things you hear on the media about Iran are true.If you think I%26#039;ve been admiring Iran too much, that%26#039;s because you%26#039;d do the same thing if you were looked down nearly everyday for some false reasons.
I think it%26#039;s better to clarify some political issues as well:
Some of the Americans I chatted with, said in the U.S it%26#039;s said that president Ahmadinejad hates the U.S and Israel and wants to nuke them!! The media are good at putting comments.It%26#039;s easy to show a video or an image of our president or leader on the T.V screen or on the internet and say he says this, he says that.....I really don%26#039;t get the point why our politicians defame themselves by talking about things that have got nothing to do with us.For example does verbal defence of Palestinians cause them to have a better life?The thing is that they occasionally make some statements that the media would misuse it agaisnt Iran. like picking up some specific sensitive phrases from among a long speech (without reffering to the main points and reasons for that speech) and putting so many bad comments on that.No sane person would take it serious.
First of all, Iranians don%26#039;t hate anyone.If our government complains about some injustice going on in the world, it%26#039;s not bad.Is it? We hate neither Jews nor Americans.They%26#039;re both nice people.If their media are fooling them, it%26#039;s not their fault.If I were in their shoes, I would hate Iran too regarding all the terrible lies they keep hearing about it nearly everyday.Although ordinary Iranians don%26#039;t care about world affairs, I%26#039;ve got to say that for us Israel is not equal to Jews! Israel is a govt.Jews are faithful people! A few of them live here in our neighbourhood and they live just like the rest of Iranians.No difference.And two of Iran%26#039;s parliment members are Jews. Who says we want to force the others to convert to Islam?Have you ever found a Muslem knocking at your door asking you to do so?That%26#039;s so funny. Christians and Jews are both God believers and respectful to us.I wonder why the media like putting words in our mouth and raising hatred.In Iran, religion would be the least important thing. It means that where you come from and what your religion is, are not important to us at all.And I wonder why some Muslem countries think there%26#039;s a problem between Shiites and Sunnies. It doesn%26#039;t make sense in Iran.
I wonder Iran is a threat to whom? Which logical rule admits that it%26#039;s logical to say a country is guilty because we THINK / PREDICT that she%26#039;s going to do something wrong?!!!! Has Iran ever attacked any countries?There%26#039;s no proof on that.That%26#039;s even what nuclear agency says.Only Iran%26#039;s oppositions are pulling Iran%26#039;s leg.What we%26#039;re doing is legal.What they ask us to do (ignoring our international rights) is illegal and nonsense.Iran is a peaceful country.Why? It%26#039;s the regional super-power and if she wanted, she could invade the countries in our neibourhood just as what Seddam did to our country, but as you see Iran has peaceful relationships with all of them.It could be a good example to some countries that just follow their interests.What is interesting is that the countries which accuse Iran of different things have been, and are still accused of the same things!!! This could be a modern and innovative form of philosophy and logic!
Some say he said: Israel should be wiped off the map! But have they told you the rest of his speech and that why he%26#039;s said this at all? If you know a little literature, you know that it%26#039;s a passive sentence.He%26#039;s never said that IRAN wants to wipe Israel off the map! And he wasn%26#039;t talking about destroying Israel.He was talking about relocating Israel, so that they could live seperate from Palestinians and they both could live in peace.They%26#039;ve only told you this phrase not the rest of it and it%26#039;s mistranslated deliberitely.Iran%26#039;s always defended itself, but it%26#039;s not an offensive country.While some countries which have nukes are clearly threatening Iran to nuke her! Good, isn%26#039;t it?
Some say he%26#039;s said: Holocaust is a myth! again this is a single phrase from among a long speech and there are totally logical reasons for saying so.If 6000000 Jews were killed, that%26#039;s so terrible, but those 300000 Shiite Moslems killed by Saddam aren%26#039;t important at all! Over 650000 Iraqi people are killed and it%26#039;s not important! When Fox News simply says: America and Israel are capable of destroying and killing all Iran%26#039;s 69000000 population within two weeks, it%26#039;s OK and no one says they%26#039;re threatening other countries to nuke them (I saw this with my own eyes on the Fox News website) Millions of people killed in Afghanistan, Hiroshima %26amp; Nakazaki and vietnam war are not considered human beings at all! Now I think you%26#039;d get the point why he%26#039;s IRONICALLY said it%26#039;s a mith.Moreover, don%26#039;t you believe in freedom of speech/mind?
Obviousely, some countries are using Iran as a victim to put the blame (their own faults) on Iran.And which country is better than Iran to be a victim?They%26#039;ve made the whole world believe that Iran isn%26#039;t a peaceful country and represent false image of Iranians by making insulting movies like %26quot;300%26quot; .
I know Americans don%26#039;t like these either, but what can they do?They can%26#039;t control what the media says.I hope someday the media would end all this instead of playing a negative role in the world.
Thanks.
Reply:The general trait of the Iranian is change in every aspect of their world. They, historically have been modern in perspective, advanced in comparison to other Middle East countries, until the ousting of the Shah in the late 70%26#039;s.
There is a revealing tone in the political movement which is the flavor of what is reported by media to the world that has been disconcerting. The mass gathering of Iran%26#039;s youth cheering the Ayatollya%26#039;s displeasure of Western culture shows the world that higher learning does not mean Iran is enlightened in their views. The use of Iran%26#039;s resources and technology toward the good advancement of it%26#039;s people is what we are looking to and hope for in mutual conversations.
Reply:Keep posting!!!! I am in Florida US reading Iran newspapers.
Hard to tell which one to read and just a few in english.
My BF is a Davey J too :))
Good luck and pleeeeez tell more!!!!!!!!!!! Report It
Reply:If u want to change the world%26#039;s perception of Iran, bombard the internet with messages like yours, submit articles to magazines and newspapers, show visitors your Iran, find pen pals in America and European countries, etc. Do whatever you can to wipe out the existing ignorance and misconceptions. Report It
Reply:You want your image to change? THEN STOP BUILDING NUCLEAR WEAPONS AND SAYING THAT YOU WILL NUKE ISRAEL. Thats a start.
Reply:yes, especially if it is cnn, or the bbc.
Paper
Friday, April 17, 2009
You wouldn't hear these things anywhere else.right?(it may take 7 mins to read this)?
445>I think reading this in 5-7 minutes would be better than listening to the news in a lifteime.Plz don%26#039;t think I%26#039;m a very old person.Just 18.A university student studying English who just cannot sit back and hope.
My question is: what percentage of what I say is acceptable to you?
This article has three parts: 1.Cultural and general info 2.music and 3.political, so plz read it from the top to the bottom.
Hi.I%26#039;m Iranian and I live in Iran.When I chat with people from other countries, I understand that they have totally wrong ideas about Iran.I just wrote this article to correct you.
The first thing they accuse our government of, is that they don%26#039;t let you be free.Actually, Iranians would be some of the most liberal people in the world (liberal meaning not obeying laws that they don%26#039;t like).Thousands of millions of strict rules in other countries, don%26#039;t even exist in Iran.Also, you should understand that what may seem so normal to you, may be a nightmare for us and vise versa.That%26#039;s why you don%26#039;t understand a few of Iran%26#039;s laws.In Iran every single house has a sattelite. Sattelite channels had a serious influence on people, they wear very fashionable clothes.Maybe it%26#039;s a kind of immitation, but still it%26#039;s got an unique Iranian style. People wear fashionable scarves to make themselves more attractive and most part of their hair is out, also it%26#039;s a part of our culture.Iran is one of the super-consumers of cosmics! People do whatever they wish to and some of the things they do, don%26#039;t fit our culture at all, however it%26#039;s normal in Iran.You really need to pay a visit to Iran and you%26#039;ll be surprised seeing the difference between what you imagined before and how the real Iran is! It%26#039;s wonderful.The Iran you know, is related to at least 30 years ago.At present, everything%26#039;s so great if you don%26#039;t take unemployment and air pollution into account.So many things have changed so far.I can%26#039;t even compare Iran with 5 years ago, let alone comparing it with 30 years ago!!!! After all, nearly 65-70% of Iran%26#039;s population is considered the new generation (The youth) and they%26#039;ve transformed everything.
Some people think women don%26#039;t have any rights in Iran! What would you tell me if I tell you that women are now overtaking Iran? They%26#039;re treated very well, most of the times they%26#039;re the winners in most cases: They get into the best universities.They get the best jobs.They%26#039;ve got rights that have made it difficult for men to marry them, because husbands buy them expensive things and treat them very well, otherwise women will have the right to ask them a great amount of money which most husbands cannot afford. (so, they can simply sit in the corner of prison! lol).The only thing that women are not allowed to do in Iran is getting into public football stadiums and that%26#039;s just because IN IRAN, such places are usually full of cheeky guys who would cheek girls.I don%26#039;t think girls would go there, even if they%26#039;re allowed to do so.As far as I know, not many girls in Iran are interested in football!
Another funny thing: Your footage about stoning the women who have committed adultery.Have you ever asked yourself they relate to how many years ago?Just for your information, those are from Afghanistan which was once ruled by those freaks (Taliban).I find it difficult to make you understand that Iran, Iraq and Afghanistan are SEPERATE COUNTRIES! and that we%26#039;re Persian and some Turkish not Arab! And I find it even more difficult to make you understand that Iran is a normal country like any other countries in the world.There%26#039;s nothing mysterious about it!(The media is very good at making scary titles: BEHIND THE CLOSED DOORS!!! IRAN UNDERCOVER!!! This would be enough to scare people away! Iranians are much more educated, intelligent and open-minded than what you think!!! I%26#039;m sure you don%26#039;t know that there are lots and lots of Iranian geniouses and scientists that are all under 25.You don%26#039;t hear about their discoveries and inventions on TV. A small example is this 17 year old boy who%26#039;s invented 72 amazing inventions.You don%26#039;t know that Iranian students and sportsmen are winning gold and silver medals in different compotitions in the world all the time such as robotics, biology, maths, physics, sports, anything! Why don%26#039;t the media talk about them?Did you know that the countries having the highest number of scientists in the world are in this order? 1-India 2-Korea 3-Iran
A few weeks ago Iran uncovered the most effective anti-H.I.V medicine and now it%26#039;s signing treaties with other countries to export it.I digged the news on the internet, but there was no single sign of that.What I found instead? %26quot;President Bush CLAIMS that bomb parts are imported from Iran into Iraq!%26quot; The media are injustice.They%26#039;d put CLAIMS on the headlines, but they would never talk about facts! Some interesting facts:
Iran is the pionier in medicine and genetics and Iranian surgens have found lots of new methods for treating spinal defects and many other diseases (mainly the treatment for different types of cancer) and the the best brain and heart surgens are Iranian surgens.The head of Mars Mission in NASA is Iranian.One of the best designer of sports cars working in Germany is Iranian.Some of the best 3D animators are Iranian.Iran is one of the best countries in counter-engineering.Holds the second place in building dams.The 4th highest tower (Milad tower) in the world is in Tehran (which you can visit in the second link).The champion weight-lifter is Iranian.The woman, and a song by one of the pop singers who/which won the nobel peace prize are Iranians. And as you all know, Iranian girls are famous for being terrific.Persian rug and Persian literature, many Persian poets and scientists that are so famous.Persian culture is now westernised and only a little has survived! According to statistics Tehran is the cheapest capital city in the world for foriegners with Dollars of course not for us! (Cos our rate is different: one Dollar=about 950 Tomans!) Who do you think is building Dubi?Arabs?No my friends, Iranian architectures, engineers and traders funding them, cos they don%26#039;t think building the same things in Iran would be beneficial for them, Since the media scare tourists away from Iran.There are many other things.And also, Iran is a very independant country.It has nearly all the developed industries and technologies and doesn%26#039;t need other countries to survive! That%26#039;s why the unfair U.N sanctions don%26#039;t bother us! The list is endless.
Some charactristics of Iranians would be: Proud, greedy, hard-working, intelligent, ambitious, not realistic, not so religious, not so generous, not punctual, impatient, well-dressed, formal, well-educated, warm and friendly and hospitable.
Some people think, Iran%26#039;s a desert! Iran%26#039;s a modern country with very beautiful nature and lots of historical places to visit.Please take a look at the following links and see if Iran looks like what you think or not! (Surely it doesn%26#039;t!)
This is a photo of Tehran: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/co... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tehran
If you like you can visit these too, hope you like them:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Hills...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Jhcfj...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Dariu...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Kish-...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Dariu...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iran
Some people think music is forbidden in Iran.Did you know that Iranian pop music has won the prize in France in 2005? All Iranian songs are current pop /Trance/ DJ music.I send them to my American and Canadian chat friends and they all admit that it%26#039;s the best music they%26#039;ve ever heard.They specially love the beat.
You can just right click on the links below and choose %26quot;Save Target As%26quot; to download them.You%26#039;ll love Iranian style.It%26#039;s nothing like what you expect! You can read the translations in here: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
(I just want you: pop%26amp;Trance 2003) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...
(The window: pop%26amp;Trance: 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(Stop world:pop 2006) http://www.sarzaminmusic.com/Sarzaminmus...
(Hold my hand:pop 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...
(The wind%26#039;s kiss:pop%26amp;Trance 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(Keep me in your memory:pop 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(Reveal your visage:pop 2004) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(It%26#039;s beautiful:pop 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...
(My bride: DJ 2006) http://www.sarzaminmusic.com/Sarzaminmus...
It%26#039;s now 2007 and people still think we are uneducated people living in deserts, riding camels and carrying around guns!!!!
See how the media are fooling people? None of the things you hear on the media about Iran are true.If you think I%26#039;ve been admiring Iran too much, that%26#039;s because you%26#039;d do the same thing if you were looked down nearly everyday for some false reasons.
I think it%26#039;s better to clarify some political issues as well:
Some of the Americans I chatted with, said in the U.S it%26#039;s said that president Ahmadinejad hates the U.S and Israel and wants to nuke them!! The media are good at putting comments.It%26#039;s easy to show a video or an image of our president or leader on the T.V screen or on the internet and say he says this, he says that.....I really don%26#039;t get the point why our politicians defame themselves by talking about things that have got nothing to do with us.For example does verbal defence of Palestinians cause them to have a better life?The thing is that they occasionally make some statements that the media would misuse it agaisnt Iran. like picking up some specific sensitive phrases from among a long speech (without reffering to the main points and reasons for that speech) and putting so many bad comments on that.No sane person would take it serious.
First of all, Iranians don%26#039;t hate anyone.If our government complains about some injustice going on in the world, it%26#039;s not bad.Is it? We hate neither Jews nor Americans.They%26#039;re both nice people.If their media are fooling them, it%26#039;s not their fault.If I were in their shoes, I would hate Iran too regarding all the terrible lies they keep hearing about it nearly everyday.Although ordinary Iranians don%26#039;t care about world affairs, I%26#039;ve got to say that for us Israel is not equal to Jews! Israel is a govt.Jews are faithful people! A few of them live here in our neighbourhood and they live just like the rest of Iranians.No difference.And two of Iran%26#039;s parliment members are Jews. Who says we want to force the others to convert to Islam?Have you ever found a Muslem knocking at your door asking you to do so?That%26#039;s so funny. Christians and Jews are both God believers and respectful to us.I wonder why the media like putting words in our mouth and raising hatred.In Iran, religion would be the least important thing. It means that where you come from and what your religion is, are not important to us at all.And I wonder why some Muslem countries think there%26#039;s a problem between Shiites and Sunnies. It doesn%26#039;t make sense in Iran.
I wonder Iran is a threat to whom? Which logical rule admits that it%26#039;s logical to say a country is guilty because we THINK / PREDICT that she%26#039;s going to do something wrong?!!!! Has Iran ever attacked any countries?There%26#039;s no proof on that.That%26#039;s even what nuclear agency says.Only Iran%26#039;s oppositions are pulling Iran%26#039;s leg.What we%26#039;re doing is legal.What they ask us to do (ignoring our international rights) is illegal and nonsense.Iran is a peaceful country.Why? It%26#039;s the regional super-power and if she wanted, she could invade the countries in our neibourhood just as what Seddam did to our country, but as you see Iran has peaceful relationships with all of them.It could be a good example to some countries that just follow their interests.What is interesting is that the countries which accuse Iran of different things have been, and are still accused of the same things!!! This could be a modern and innovative form of philosophy and logic!
Some say he said: Israel should be wiped off the map! But have they told you the rest of his speech and that why he%26#039;s said this at all? If you know a little literature, you know that it%26#039;s a passive sentence.He%26#039;s never said that IRAN wants to wipe Israel off the map! And he wasn%26#039;t talking about destroying Israel.He was talking about relocating Israel, so that they could live seperate from Palestinians and they both could live in peace.They%26#039;ve only told you this phrase not the rest of it and it%26#039;s mistranslated deliberitely.Iran%26#039;s always defended itself, but it%26#039;s not an offensive country.While some countries which have nukes are clearly threatening Iran to nuke her! Good, isn%26#039;t it?
Some say he%26#039;s said: Holocaust is a myth! again this is a single phrase from among a long speech and there are totally logical reasons for saying so.If 6000000 Jews were killed, that%26#039;s so terrible, but those 300000 Shiite Moslems killed by Saddam aren%26#039;t important at all! Over 650000 Iraqi people are killed and it%26#039;s not important! When Fox News simply says: America and Israel are capable of destroying and killing all Iran%26#039;s 69000000 population within two weeks, it%26#039;s OK and no one says they%26#039;re threatening other countries to nuke them (I saw this with my own eyes on the Fox News website) Millions of people killed in Afghanistan, Hiroshima %26amp; Nakazaki and vietnam war are not considered human beings at all! Now I think you%26#039;d get the point why he%26#039;s IRONICALLY said it%26#039;s a mith.Moreover, don%26#039;t you believe in freedom of speech/mind?
Obviousely, some countries are using Iran as a victim to put the blame (their own faults) on Iran.And which country is better than Iran to be a victim?They%26#039;ve made the whole world believe that Iran isn%26#039;t a peaceful country and represent false image of Iranians by making insulting movies like %26quot;300%26quot; .
I know Americans don%26#039;t like these either, but what can they do?They can%26#039;t control what the media says.I hope someday the media would end all this instead of playing a negative role in the world.
Thanks.
Reply:hey brother , at first i want you to know that i support you ,we both are from islamic coutries , so i dont want you to take what i%26#039;m saying against you and take care to that :
you said %26quot;Iranians would be some of the most liberal people in the world (liberal meaning not obeying laws that they don%26#039;t like)%26quot;
thats great and thats correct as i see , but some one may say
cant they their government aginst them , cant you see what your governoment do to you and do in herself opposit the world , cant you see aswell how did they open iran and change the system and relegion , ( i%26#039;m muslim but i hate to hear someone saying i entered alislam by violence , that should never happened)
a rational governoment even if it was bad like that we have in egypt they are not the best leaders that lead a country , but we love them and they do their best to improve us , they still have alot of faults and commet mistakes regularly as if it became a happit , such as mondial famous zero
every effort they give is to improve every one ( we and them , people over the ground and people in leading places )
what is iranian governoment do they rais their names not yours , when you hear some one sayin i%26#039;m against the world and i can stand in their faces when the world talks about ristrictions he is back for talk
being back and ready to talk thats the thing is said to be for iranians , if they where really afraid on you why did they start it from the beginig
you got culture and music and every one else does but dont forget that you have people that says we are obligated to be muslims when strangers see what you refer to they say yea they became like that because they didnt want to be muslim
some people else thinks that there are no churches in iran
i%26#039;m sorry man but i think what you are trying to conduct is still weak and you needent to publish that nowadays
i forgot to tell you that you didnt declare the truth about iranian terrorists around the world , and that we dont care to israelian stories , they always are confusing us with the talk about a difference between israelians and jews around the world
jews are israelians and israelians are jews , what ever they say.
jews role usa and usa protects israel under their vito
every thing in afghanistan , iraq , even sheshan started by israel or their (war buiness men)
Reply:Your are to long winded and I remember when your bros took over our embassy. The only reason you gave them up was you figured Reagan was going to bomb your azz into the stone age.
Your people are cowards and maybe a lot of us americans don%26#039;t care about stupid stuff just the nukes your building. I suppose the next thing you say itis a radio station to play top 40. hey what about shooting oil tankers in Kuiwate what was that 1988. I find it hard to believe your country is peaceful.
I think you have asked this twice?
My question is: what percentage of what I say is acceptable to you?
This article has three parts: 1.Cultural and general info 2.music and 3.political, so plz read it from the top to the bottom.
Hi.I%26#039;m Iranian and I live in Iran.When I chat with people from other countries, I understand that they have totally wrong ideas about Iran.I just wrote this article to correct you.
The first thing they accuse our government of, is that they don%26#039;t let you be free.Actually, Iranians would be some of the most liberal people in the world (liberal meaning not obeying laws that they don%26#039;t like).Thousands of millions of strict rules in other countries, don%26#039;t even exist in Iran.Also, you should understand that what may seem so normal to you, may be a nightmare for us and vise versa.That%26#039;s why you don%26#039;t understand a few of Iran%26#039;s laws.In Iran every single house has a sattelite. Sattelite channels had a serious influence on people, they wear very fashionable clothes.Maybe it%26#039;s a kind of immitation, but still it%26#039;s got an unique Iranian style. People wear fashionable scarves to make themselves more attractive and most part of their hair is out, also it%26#039;s a part of our culture.Iran is one of the super-consumers of cosmics! People do whatever they wish to and some of the things they do, don%26#039;t fit our culture at all, however it%26#039;s normal in Iran.You really need to pay a visit to Iran and you%26#039;ll be surprised seeing the difference between what you imagined before and how the real Iran is! It%26#039;s wonderful.The Iran you know, is related to at least 30 years ago.At present, everything%26#039;s so great if you don%26#039;t take unemployment and air pollution into account.So many things have changed so far.I can%26#039;t even compare Iran with 5 years ago, let alone comparing it with 30 years ago!!!! After all, nearly 65-70% of Iran%26#039;s population is considered the new generation (The youth) and they%26#039;ve transformed everything.
Some people think women don%26#039;t have any rights in Iran! What would you tell me if I tell you that women are now overtaking Iran? They%26#039;re treated very well, most of the times they%26#039;re the winners in most cases: They get into the best universities.They get the best jobs.They%26#039;ve got rights that have made it difficult for men to marry them, because husbands buy them expensive things and treat them very well, otherwise women will have the right to ask them a great amount of money which most husbands cannot afford. (so, they can simply sit in the corner of prison! lol).The only thing that women are not allowed to do in Iran is getting into public football stadiums and that%26#039;s just because IN IRAN, such places are usually full of cheeky guys who would cheek girls.I don%26#039;t think girls would go there, even if they%26#039;re allowed to do so.As far as I know, not many girls in Iran are interested in football!
Another funny thing: Your footage about stoning the women who have committed adultery.Have you ever asked yourself they relate to how many years ago?Just for your information, those are from Afghanistan which was once ruled by those freaks (Taliban).I find it difficult to make you understand that Iran, Iraq and Afghanistan are SEPERATE COUNTRIES! and that we%26#039;re Persian and some Turkish not Arab! And I find it even more difficult to make you understand that Iran is a normal country like any other countries in the world.There%26#039;s nothing mysterious about it!(The media is very good at making scary titles: BEHIND THE CLOSED DOORS!!! IRAN UNDERCOVER!!! This would be enough to scare people away! Iranians are much more educated, intelligent and open-minded than what you think!!! I%26#039;m sure you don%26#039;t know that there are lots and lots of Iranian geniouses and scientists that are all under 25.You don%26#039;t hear about their discoveries and inventions on TV. A small example is this 17 year old boy who%26#039;s invented 72 amazing inventions.You don%26#039;t know that Iranian students and sportsmen are winning gold and silver medals in different compotitions in the world all the time such as robotics, biology, maths, physics, sports, anything! Why don%26#039;t the media talk about them?Did you know that the countries having the highest number of scientists in the world are in this order? 1-India 2-Korea 3-Iran
A few weeks ago Iran uncovered the most effective anti-H.I.V medicine and now it%26#039;s signing treaties with other countries to export it.I digged the news on the internet, but there was no single sign of that.What I found instead? %26quot;President Bush CLAIMS that bomb parts are imported from Iran into Iraq!%26quot; The media are injustice.They%26#039;d put CLAIMS on the headlines, but they would never talk about facts! Some interesting facts:
Iran is the pionier in medicine and genetics and Iranian surgens have found lots of new methods for treating spinal defects and many other diseases (mainly the treatment for different types of cancer) and the the best brain and heart surgens are Iranian surgens.The head of Mars Mission in NASA is Iranian.One of the best designer of sports cars working in Germany is Iranian.Some of the best 3D animators are Iranian.Iran is one of the best countries in counter-engineering.Holds the second place in building dams.The 4th highest tower (Milad tower) in the world is in Tehran (which you can visit in the second link).The champion weight-lifter is Iranian.The woman, and a song by one of the pop singers who/which won the nobel peace prize are Iranians. And as you all know, Iranian girls are famous for being terrific.Persian rug and Persian literature, many Persian poets and scientists that are so famous.Persian culture is now westernised and only a little has survived! According to statistics Tehran is the cheapest capital city in the world for foriegners with Dollars of course not for us! (Cos our rate is different: one Dollar=about 950 Tomans!) Who do you think is building Dubi?Arabs?No my friends, Iranian architectures, engineers and traders funding them, cos they don%26#039;t think building the same things in Iran would be beneficial for them, Since the media scare tourists away from Iran.There are many other things.And also, Iran is a very independant country.It has nearly all the developed industries and technologies and doesn%26#039;t need other countries to survive! That%26#039;s why the unfair U.N sanctions don%26#039;t bother us! The list is endless.
Some charactristics of Iranians would be: Proud, greedy, hard-working, intelligent, ambitious, not realistic, not so religious, not so generous, not punctual, impatient, well-dressed, formal, well-educated, warm and friendly and hospitable.
Some people think, Iran%26#039;s a desert! Iran%26#039;s a modern country with very beautiful nature and lots of historical places to visit.Please take a look at the following links and see if Iran looks like what you think or not! (Surely it doesn%26#039;t!)
This is a photo of Tehran: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/co... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tehran
If you like you can visit these too, hope you like them:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Hills...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Jhcfj...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Dariu...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Kish-...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Dariu...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iran
Some people think music is forbidden in Iran.Did you know that Iranian pop music has won the prize in France in 2005? All Iranian songs are current pop /Trance/ DJ music.I send them to my American and Canadian chat friends and they all admit that it%26#039;s the best music they%26#039;ve ever heard.They specially love the beat.
You can just right click on the links below and choose %26quot;Save Target As%26quot; to download them.You%26#039;ll love Iranian style.It%26#039;s nothing like what you expect! You can read the translations in here: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
(I just want you: pop%26amp;Trance 2003) http://download.bia2music.com/Music/Iran...
(The window: pop%26amp;Trance: 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(Stop world:pop 2006) http://www.sarzaminmusic.com/Sarzaminmus...
(Hold my hand:pop 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...
(The wind%26#039;s kiss:pop%26amp;Trance 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(Keep me in your memory:pop 2005) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(Reveal your visage:pop 2004) http://www.sarzamin.org/Sarzaminmusic/Pe...
(It%26#039;s beautiful:pop 2007) http://www.sarzaminmp3.com/Sarzaminmusic...
(My bride: DJ 2006) http://www.sarzaminmusic.com/Sarzaminmus...
It%26#039;s now 2007 and people still think we are uneducated people living in deserts, riding camels and carrying around guns!!!!
See how the media are fooling people? None of the things you hear on the media about Iran are true.If you think I%26#039;ve been admiring Iran too much, that%26#039;s because you%26#039;d do the same thing if you were looked down nearly everyday for some false reasons.
I think it%26#039;s better to clarify some political issues as well:
Some of the Americans I chatted with, said in the U.S it%26#039;s said that president Ahmadinejad hates the U.S and Israel and wants to nuke them!! The media are good at putting comments.It%26#039;s easy to show a video or an image of our president or leader on the T.V screen or on the internet and say he says this, he says that.....I really don%26#039;t get the point why our politicians defame themselves by talking about things that have got nothing to do with us.For example does verbal defence of Palestinians cause them to have a better life?The thing is that they occasionally make some statements that the media would misuse it agaisnt Iran. like picking up some specific sensitive phrases from among a long speech (without reffering to the main points and reasons for that speech) and putting so many bad comments on that.No sane person would take it serious.
First of all, Iranians don%26#039;t hate anyone.If our government complains about some injustice going on in the world, it%26#039;s not bad.Is it? We hate neither Jews nor Americans.They%26#039;re both nice people.If their media are fooling them, it%26#039;s not their fault.If I were in their shoes, I would hate Iran too regarding all the terrible lies they keep hearing about it nearly everyday.Although ordinary Iranians don%26#039;t care about world affairs, I%26#039;ve got to say that for us Israel is not equal to Jews! Israel is a govt.Jews are faithful people! A few of them live here in our neighbourhood and they live just like the rest of Iranians.No difference.And two of Iran%26#039;s parliment members are Jews. Who says we want to force the others to convert to Islam?Have you ever found a Muslem knocking at your door asking you to do so?That%26#039;s so funny. Christians and Jews are both God believers and respectful to us.I wonder why the media like putting words in our mouth and raising hatred.In Iran, religion would be the least important thing. It means that where you come from and what your religion is, are not important to us at all.And I wonder why some Muslem countries think there%26#039;s a problem between Shiites and Sunnies. It doesn%26#039;t make sense in Iran.
I wonder Iran is a threat to whom? Which logical rule admits that it%26#039;s logical to say a country is guilty because we THINK / PREDICT that she%26#039;s going to do something wrong?!!!! Has Iran ever attacked any countries?There%26#039;s no proof on that.That%26#039;s even what nuclear agency says.Only Iran%26#039;s oppositions are pulling Iran%26#039;s leg.What we%26#039;re doing is legal.What they ask us to do (ignoring our international rights) is illegal and nonsense.Iran is a peaceful country.Why? It%26#039;s the regional super-power and if she wanted, she could invade the countries in our neibourhood just as what Seddam did to our country, but as you see Iran has peaceful relationships with all of them.It could be a good example to some countries that just follow their interests.What is interesting is that the countries which accuse Iran of different things have been, and are still accused of the same things!!! This could be a modern and innovative form of philosophy and logic!
Some say he said: Israel should be wiped off the map! But have they told you the rest of his speech and that why he%26#039;s said this at all? If you know a little literature, you know that it%26#039;s a passive sentence.He%26#039;s never said that IRAN wants to wipe Israel off the map! And he wasn%26#039;t talking about destroying Israel.He was talking about relocating Israel, so that they could live seperate from Palestinians and they both could live in peace.They%26#039;ve only told you this phrase not the rest of it and it%26#039;s mistranslated deliberitely.Iran%26#039;s always defended itself, but it%26#039;s not an offensive country.While some countries which have nukes are clearly threatening Iran to nuke her! Good, isn%26#039;t it?
Some say he%26#039;s said: Holocaust is a myth! again this is a single phrase from among a long speech and there are totally logical reasons for saying so.If 6000000 Jews were killed, that%26#039;s so terrible, but those 300000 Shiite Moslems killed by Saddam aren%26#039;t important at all! Over 650000 Iraqi people are killed and it%26#039;s not important! When Fox News simply says: America and Israel are capable of destroying and killing all Iran%26#039;s 69000000 population within two weeks, it%26#039;s OK and no one says they%26#039;re threatening other countries to nuke them (I saw this with my own eyes on the Fox News website) Millions of people killed in Afghanistan, Hiroshima %26amp; Nakazaki and vietnam war are not considered human beings at all! Now I think you%26#039;d get the point why he%26#039;s IRONICALLY said it%26#039;s a mith.Moreover, don%26#039;t you believe in freedom of speech/mind?
Obviousely, some countries are using Iran as a victim to put the blame (their own faults) on Iran.And which country is better than Iran to be a victim?They%26#039;ve made the whole world believe that Iran isn%26#039;t a peaceful country and represent false image of Iranians by making insulting movies like %26quot;300%26quot; .
I know Americans don%26#039;t like these either, but what can they do?They can%26#039;t control what the media says.I hope someday the media would end all this instead of playing a negative role in the world.
Thanks.
Reply:hey brother , at first i want you to know that i support you ,we both are from islamic coutries , so i dont want you to take what i%26#039;m saying against you and take care to that :
you said %26quot;Iranians would be some of the most liberal people in the world (liberal meaning not obeying laws that they don%26#039;t like)%26quot;
thats great and thats correct as i see , but some one may say
cant they their government aginst them , cant you see what your governoment do to you and do in herself opposit the world , cant you see aswell how did they open iran and change the system and relegion , ( i%26#039;m muslim but i hate to hear someone saying i entered alislam by violence , that should never happened)
a rational governoment even if it was bad like that we have in egypt they are not the best leaders that lead a country , but we love them and they do their best to improve us , they still have alot of faults and commet mistakes regularly as if it became a happit , such as mondial famous zero
every effort they give is to improve every one ( we and them , people over the ground and people in leading places )
what is iranian governoment do they rais their names not yours , when you hear some one sayin i%26#039;m against the world and i can stand in their faces when the world talks about ristrictions he is back for talk
being back and ready to talk thats the thing is said to be for iranians , if they where really afraid on you why did they start it from the beginig
you got culture and music and every one else does but dont forget that you have people that says we are obligated to be muslims when strangers see what you refer to they say yea they became like that because they didnt want to be muslim
some people else thinks that there are no churches in iran
i%26#039;m sorry man but i think what you are trying to conduct is still weak and you needent to publish that nowadays
i forgot to tell you that you didnt declare the truth about iranian terrorists around the world , and that we dont care to israelian stories , they always are confusing us with the talk about a difference between israelians and jews around the world
jews are israelians and israelians are jews , what ever they say.
jews role usa and usa protects israel under their vito
every thing in afghanistan , iraq , even sheshan started by israel or their (war buiness men)
Reply:Your are to long winded and I remember when your bros took over our embassy. The only reason you gave them up was you figured Reagan was going to bomb your azz into the stone age.
Your people are cowards and maybe a lot of us americans don%26#039;t care about stupid stuff just the nukes your building. I suppose the next thing you say itis a radio station to play top 40. hey what about shooting oil tankers in Kuiwate what was that 1988. I find it hard to believe your country is peaceful.
I think you have asked this twice?
If a person's antibodies could cure all disease, would the government have the right to extract samples..?
444>If a person%26#039;s antibodies could cure all disease, would the government have the right to forcibly extract samples of that person%26#039;s blood in order to help medicine and other people?
Imagine a person who is discovered to be immune to all forms Cancer, TB, Viruses, Bacteria etc. You could say he has a super immune system. He went through life unnoticed and became his own person. He is very anti-social. He would never willingly give information or other things to any organization. But this person is real. The government knows that by getting his blood they would be able to cure all people of disease. Would the government be able to force this person to submit his blood or body to research?
Reply:Do you want a theoretical Answer- or a Realistic one?? Theoretically- no. Realistically- the Government would NOT take %26quot;No%26quot; for an answer. If it WANTS something from you- you%26#039;d better be REALLY good at hiding. (Some people ARE though... -take Bin Laden, for example. Our Govenment%26#039;s been looking for HIM for YEARS- thinking he%26#039;s the %26quot;cure%26quot; for what %26quot;ails%26quot; it. :) ).
Reply:Naw, said person would just be taxed or become property of the state.
Reply:In order for the government to know about this %26quot;fictitious%26quot; person, someone would have had to already have taken a sample. This sample, and not the person, could be used for research and development. Wouldn%26#039;t that be wonderful. You must have watched or heard this story on that law program on TV the other night with William Shatner. It was an interesting show and does get you to think.
Imagine a person who is discovered to be immune to all forms Cancer, TB, Viruses, Bacteria etc. You could say he has a super immune system. He went through life unnoticed and became his own person. He is very anti-social. He would never willingly give information or other things to any organization. But this person is real. The government knows that by getting his blood they would be able to cure all people of disease. Would the government be able to force this person to submit his blood or body to research?
Reply:Do you want a theoretical Answer- or a Realistic one?? Theoretically- no. Realistically- the Government would NOT take %26quot;No%26quot; for an answer. If it WANTS something from you- you%26#039;d better be REALLY good at hiding. (Some people ARE though... -take Bin Laden, for example. Our Govenment%26#039;s been looking for HIM for YEARS- thinking he%26#039;s the %26quot;cure%26quot; for what %26quot;ails%26quot; it. :) ).
Reply:Naw, said person would just be taxed or become property of the state.
Reply:In order for the government to know about this %26quot;fictitious%26quot; person, someone would have had to already have taken a sample. This sample, and not the person, could be used for research and development. Wouldn%26#039;t that be wonderful. You must have watched or heard this story on that law program on TV the other night with William Shatner. It was an interesting show and does get you to think.
My husband spends hours staring into his eyes in the mirror?
443>He%26#039;s not on LSD but he sure acts like it.
His eyes are not like other people%26#039;s. This sounds wierd but have you ever looked at goat%26#039;s eyes or snakes? His eyes look unfocussed and they don%26#039;t dilate unless he%26#039;s raging.
He frowns a lot, really angry, he says he%26#039;s %26quot;irritable%26quot;, he blows up out of the blue. He went to couple counseling once, didn%26#039;t say a word, the doctor gave him anti-depressants, told me my husband was not going to get better. Later my husband said he didn%26#039;t believe in psychology.
When he kisses me, I feel repulsed. He covers my nose by jamming his nose against mine so I can%26#039;r breathe. I told him but he keps doing this. He touches me very impersonally, like he%26#039;s focussed just on his body. There%26#039;s more but maybe you can explain what%26#039;s happening.
Fifteen years ago he was more relaxed.
I have a daughter, I am disabled from cancer and have no family.
Thanks to all.
Reply:Most likely paranoid schizophrenic. Be VERY careful. I have observed that paranoid schizophrenic eyes will change before they go %26quot;off%26quot;. He may be narscistic as well if he is very into looking at himself, or he may be aware of the change in his personality or be fighting listening to the voices in his head.
The way you are feeling is a big wake up call that something is seriously wrong with this man and that he may be a great danger to you. Please go to a counselor yourself if he will not go. This man is Definitely mentally ill and you are in danger.
I work in a residential treatment center and have delt with paranoids. I was also attacked and assaulted by one in the past - please be careful - we are talking about your life.
Reply:You may want to read up on schizophrenia, it is often genetic, like if he has a parent that is, he has a 50 percent chance of being one. Report It
Reply:hes a reptilian!!
Reply:Why did you marry this guy? I don%26#039;t hear any reasons in the world why you should stay with him.
Reply:narcissisistic and bi polar?.. %26#039;belying self-image%26#039; is a sin..seems you need to bail. or point out to him the err of his ways..
Reply:he is...
DOWNSYNDROME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Has his eyes always been that way? Did his %26quot;irratability%26quot; start when his eyes changed? About how long ago did this start? Also, how long have you been disabled b/c of cancer?
I don%26#039;t know those things but based on what I read I believe that maybe he is doing drugs. Or possibly he has had some kind of traumatic event that has caused him to kind of disconnect himself from others. I don%26#039;t want to sound mean or anything, I%26#039;m just trying to cover all the angles. Another possibility is that when you became disabled he was fine with it at first but now he realizes things are way different and he has to be more independent and has to pick up alot of the work that you did all the time which causes more stress. If so he probably wants to move on with his life but he realizes you and your daughter need someone there to help out. So that could be the reason he isn%26#039;t as caring or nurturing as he used to be. Again, I%26#039;m just covering the angles so please don%26#039;t be upset with me. But if I saw someone staring into their own eyes in the mirror for hours I would seriously believe either 1 they have had some serious traumatic experience causing them to dissassociate themselves from everyone else or they are on drugs. If you have more info and want to ask anything else feel free to email me.
I just thought about one more thing:
He could be possessed. Do y%26#039;all go to church and etc? If not you might want to hit up a church and have the church pray for him.
Reply:Like JOHN B says, he doesn%26#039;t sound human.
What is his religion? If he%26#039;s an occultist, your in deep ****.
Reply:sounds a little bit like mutiple personality disorder.
His eyes are not like other people%26#039;s. This sounds wierd but have you ever looked at goat%26#039;s eyes or snakes? His eyes look unfocussed and they don%26#039;t dilate unless he%26#039;s raging.
He frowns a lot, really angry, he says he%26#039;s %26quot;irritable%26quot;, he blows up out of the blue. He went to couple counseling once, didn%26#039;t say a word, the doctor gave him anti-depressants, told me my husband was not going to get better. Later my husband said he didn%26#039;t believe in psychology.
When he kisses me, I feel repulsed. He covers my nose by jamming his nose against mine so I can%26#039;r breathe. I told him but he keps doing this. He touches me very impersonally, like he%26#039;s focussed just on his body. There%26#039;s more but maybe you can explain what%26#039;s happening.
Fifteen years ago he was more relaxed.
I have a daughter, I am disabled from cancer and have no family.
Thanks to all.
Reply:Most likely paranoid schizophrenic. Be VERY careful. I have observed that paranoid schizophrenic eyes will change before they go %26quot;off%26quot;. He may be narscistic as well if he is very into looking at himself, or he may be aware of the change in his personality or be fighting listening to the voices in his head.
The way you are feeling is a big wake up call that something is seriously wrong with this man and that he may be a great danger to you. Please go to a counselor yourself if he will not go. This man is Definitely mentally ill and you are in danger.
I work in a residential treatment center and have delt with paranoids. I was also attacked and assaulted by one in the past - please be careful - we are talking about your life.
Reply:You may want to read up on schizophrenia, it is often genetic, like if he has a parent that is, he has a 50 percent chance of being one. Report It
Reply:hes a reptilian!!
Reply:Why did you marry this guy? I don%26#039;t hear any reasons in the world why you should stay with him.
Reply:narcissisistic and bi polar?.. %26#039;belying self-image%26#039; is a sin..seems you need to bail. or point out to him the err of his ways..
Reply:he is...
DOWNSYNDROME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Has his eyes always been that way? Did his %26quot;irratability%26quot; start when his eyes changed? About how long ago did this start? Also, how long have you been disabled b/c of cancer?
I don%26#039;t know those things but based on what I read I believe that maybe he is doing drugs. Or possibly he has had some kind of traumatic event that has caused him to kind of disconnect himself from others. I don%26#039;t want to sound mean or anything, I%26#039;m just trying to cover all the angles. Another possibility is that when you became disabled he was fine with it at first but now he realizes things are way different and he has to be more independent and has to pick up alot of the work that you did all the time which causes more stress. If so he probably wants to move on with his life but he realizes you and your daughter need someone there to help out. So that could be the reason he isn%26#039;t as caring or nurturing as he used to be. Again, I%26#039;m just covering the angles so please don%26#039;t be upset with me. But if I saw someone staring into their own eyes in the mirror for hours I would seriously believe either 1 they have had some serious traumatic experience causing them to dissassociate themselves from everyone else or they are on drugs. If you have more info and want to ask anything else feel free to email me.
I just thought about one more thing:
He could be possessed. Do y%26#039;all go to church and etc? If not you might want to hit up a church and have the church pray for him.
Reply:Like JOHN B says, he doesn%26#039;t sound human.
What is his religion? If he%26#039;s an occultist, your in deep ****.
Reply:sounds a little bit like mutiple personality disorder.
Which is less unhealthy, Tea or Coffee?
442>I know tea has the anti-oxidants so it could be healthier, but they both contain caffeine and a load of other crap. So which is least likely to stain my teeth, give me cancer or mess up my brain?
Reply:Freshly brewed coffee has lots of good things, and can help decongest and perk you up when you have a cold. Tea, however, does not have as much caffine as coffee.
If you are worried about the nasties in both these hot drinks, I would recommend herbal teas, which have lots of healthy properties, and they are widely available from supermarkets. You can have lots of different varieties, and a lot contain suplements such as ginseng, echinacia etc.
Reply:Tea is healthier - less caffeine, more antioxidents, and less likely to stain teeth
Reply:coffee , it makes your teeth black
Reply:Don%26#039;t drink either...drink vodka or gin ...it%26#039;s better for you and you%26#039;ll be so drunk you won%26#039;t give a damb anyway.
Reply:Coffee - caffeine UGH!!
Reply:Tea. Green tea with a hint of lemon is the best.
Reply:Tea... But make it Green Tea... ;)
Reply:tea
i suggest liptons citrus flavor green tea
mmmmmm
Reply:coffee. tea is more natural. (i dont really know, but pretty sure tea is nicer)
Reply:Tea. It has antioxidants .
Reply:Tea is healthier, coffee stains your teeth and has a load of caffeine and other stuff that%26#039;s bad for your body.
Reply:ok stick with tea. and leave out the milk and sugar. try green tea...this wont stain your teeth and has health benifits
Reply:i would have thought cofee,myself
Reply:Tea is better for you, I think some people have got confused with the wording of your question.
Reply:tea is more healthy
Reply:Drink beer its better for you.
Reply:tea is better for u and coffee has to much caffeine tea wont stain your teeth but coffee will
Reply:Firstly, I have never heard of either giving you cancer! In fact, I believe that antioxidants are supposed to protect you from cancer!
Health-wise, it depends upon what sort of tea you prefer! China tea is supposed to be healthier. %26#039;Workman%26#039;s Tea%26#039; has milk in it (calcium!). However, tea seems to stain cups more than coffee.
I prefer coffee - black!
Anything is bad for you if you have too much of it! Everything in moderation!
You drinks your poison and takes your choice - so drink what you want - and make sure you clean your teeth well!
Reply:Coffee is worse and has a stronger addiction possibilty than tea. But both are bad because of caffeine. Switch to decaffeinated tea or herbal tea, pure fruit juices and no more sodas - much healthier for you.
Reply:tea is better then coffee. Coffee can make u hyper
Reply:tea,but then again everything ok in moderation.
Reply:Good point. Both are equally bad. If you drink instant coffee I would say that is the worst as it is freeze dried and I don%26#039;t think tea is the same. The better options are fresh ground coffee or herbal tea (not flavoured but herbal). There%26#039;s no caffeine at all.
Reply:tea is more healthy because although it has caffeine in it it%26#039;s not as bad as coffee.(i heard this on a science channel) if you had100 cups of coffee in a day or two you would die due to the caffeine however tea wouldn%26#039;t kill you if you drunk that much you would just feel a bit sick.
Reply:tea without milk or caffeine. try redbush tea
Reply:Tea
Reply:I would say tea .
Reply:BOTH THE SAME
Reply:Tea is a lot healthier for you and some types of tea can even help boost your immune system and help your digestive track.
Reply:Both, don%26#039;t drink any. I just drink water, haven%26#039;t drunk tea or coffe for at least two years, and feel better for it.
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Reply:Freshly brewed coffee has lots of good things, and can help decongest and perk you up when you have a cold. Tea, however, does not have as much caffine as coffee.
If you are worried about the nasties in both these hot drinks, I would recommend herbal teas, which have lots of healthy properties, and they are widely available from supermarkets. You can have lots of different varieties, and a lot contain suplements such as ginseng, echinacia etc.
Reply:Tea is healthier - less caffeine, more antioxidents, and less likely to stain teeth
Reply:coffee , it makes your teeth black
Reply:Don%26#039;t drink either...drink vodka or gin ...it%26#039;s better for you and you%26#039;ll be so drunk you won%26#039;t give a damb anyway.
Reply:Coffee - caffeine UGH!!
Reply:Tea. Green tea with a hint of lemon is the best.
Reply:Tea... But make it Green Tea... ;)
Reply:tea
i suggest liptons citrus flavor green tea
mmmmmm
Reply:coffee. tea is more natural. (i dont really know, but pretty sure tea is nicer)
Reply:Tea. It has antioxidants .
Reply:Tea is healthier, coffee stains your teeth and has a load of caffeine and other stuff that%26#039;s bad for your body.
Reply:ok stick with tea. and leave out the milk and sugar. try green tea...this wont stain your teeth and has health benifits
Reply:i would have thought cofee,myself
Reply:Tea is better for you, I think some people have got confused with the wording of your question.
Reply:tea is more healthy
Reply:Drink beer its better for you.
Reply:tea is better for u and coffee has to much caffeine tea wont stain your teeth but coffee will
Reply:Firstly, I have never heard of either giving you cancer! In fact, I believe that antioxidants are supposed to protect you from cancer!
Health-wise, it depends upon what sort of tea you prefer! China tea is supposed to be healthier. %26#039;Workman%26#039;s Tea%26#039; has milk in it (calcium!). However, tea seems to stain cups more than coffee.
I prefer coffee - black!
Anything is bad for you if you have too much of it! Everything in moderation!
You drinks your poison and takes your choice - so drink what you want - and make sure you clean your teeth well!
Reply:Coffee is worse and has a stronger addiction possibilty than tea. But both are bad because of caffeine. Switch to decaffeinated tea or herbal tea, pure fruit juices and no more sodas - much healthier for you.
Reply:tea is better then coffee. Coffee can make u hyper
Reply:tea,but then again everything ok in moderation.
Reply:Good point. Both are equally bad. If you drink instant coffee I would say that is the worst as it is freeze dried and I don%26#039;t think tea is the same. The better options are fresh ground coffee or herbal tea (not flavoured but herbal). There%26#039;s no caffeine at all.
Reply:tea is more healthy because although it has caffeine in it it%26#039;s not as bad as coffee.(i heard this on a science channel) if you had100 cups of coffee in a day or two you would die due to the caffeine however tea wouldn%26#039;t kill you if you drunk that much you would just feel a bit sick.
Reply:tea without milk or caffeine. try redbush tea
Reply:Tea
Reply:I would say tea .
Reply:BOTH THE SAME
Reply:Tea is a lot healthier for you and some types of tea can even help boost your immune system and help your digestive track.
Reply:Both, don%26#039;t drink any. I just drink water, haven%26#039;t drunk tea or coffe for at least two years, and feel better for it.
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Any Non-Smokers like the smell of cigarette smoke ?
441>This is confusing me, when im around my friends, a few of them smoke, and the smell is like WOW, i just breath it all in , i dont know if im passivley addicted or what :p.
But the weird thing is , that when i smell anyone else%26#039;s smoke , its enough to make me be sick, and makes me wish there was a smoking ban.
Very confused about this.
And most Non-Smokers are totally Anti-Smoking, are there any Non-smokers who like the smell to an extent aswell.
And i dont want to start , cause i dont want to be hooked and i dont want to end up looking ugly, or getting cancer or whatever.
Im totally confused lol...
Can anybody shed some light on this ? ,
Thanks xx
Reply:ii have never smoked, but all my family did when i was growing up. Now i am 28 and i dont mind the smell of smoke at all - doesnt bother me one bit...in fact sometimes i find it quite comforting...weird huh?!!
Reply:Cigars or pipes can have a fruity smell that some people like, but I%26#039;ve never heard of any non-smoker liking the smell of cigarettes. Those things are nasty.
Are you sure it wasn%26#039;t /wacky/ tobaccy? Because that has a very sweet smell.
Reply:Yes , but only when it is fresh. After a few minutes issnot so good and the next morning it is vile and it is always horrid if you are eating.
Reply:I don%26#039;t what%26#039;s wrong, but I do that inhaling the second hand smoke is worse than putting the cigarette to your lips. And all of those things you don%26#039;t want to happen can end up happening anyway. Just a thought
Reply:No not cigarettes,but strangely enough i like the smell of Cigars and pipe tobacco.
Reply:No way its disgusting I hate it. How can anyone like it. The smell stays in your hair and in your clothes and it stinks.
Reply:I am an ex smoker, gave up 12 months ago, I still like the smell of a cig being smoked but the smell of someone who has just had a cig is vile , you can smell them from quite a distance away as well
Reply:i like when guys smoke %26amp; then their hoodies smell like it after. i should work for tobacco companies, lol. i%26#039;d be like, %26quot;smoke...you will smell so sexy.%26quot;
But the weird thing is , that when i smell anyone else%26#039;s smoke , its enough to make me be sick, and makes me wish there was a smoking ban.
Very confused about this.
And most Non-Smokers are totally Anti-Smoking, are there any Non-smokers who like the smell to an extent aswell.
And i dont want to start , cause i dont want to be hooked and i dont want to end up looking ugly, or getting cancer or whatever.
Im totally confused lol...
Can anybody shed some light on this ? ,
Thanks xx
Reply:ii have never smoked, but all my family did when i was growing up. Now i am 28 and i dont mind the smell of smoke at all - doesnt bother me one bit...in fact sometimes i find it quite comforting...weird huh?!!
Reply:Cigars or pipes can have a fruity smell that some people like, but I%26#039;ve never heard of any non-smoker liking the smell of cigarettes. Those things are nasty.
Are you sure it wasn%26#039;t /wacky/ tobaccy? Because that has a very sweet smell.
Reply:Yes , but only when it is fresh. After a few minutes issnot so good and the next morning it is vile and it is always horrid if you are eating.
Reply:I don%26#039;t what%26#039;s wrong, but I do that inhaling the second hand smoke is worse than putting the cigarette to your lips. And all of those things you don%26#039;t want to happen can end up happening anyway. Just a thought
Reply:No not cigarettes,but strangely enough i like the smell of Cigars and pipe tobacco.
Reply:No way its disgusting I hate it. How can anyone like it. The smell stays in your hair and in your clothes and it stinks.
Reply:I am an ex smoker, gave up 12 months ago, I still like the smell of a cig being smoked but the smell of someone who has just had a cig is vile , you can smell them from quite a distance away as well
Reply:i like when guys smoke %26amp; then their hoodies smell like it after. i should work for tobacco companies, lol. i%26#039;d be like, %26quot;smoke...you will smell so sexy.%26quot;
My Bipolar SISTER IS MANIC AGAIN! HELP US! She Does Not Want to Take her Medication!?
440>right now shes yelling swearing etc....see her fiance tells her not to take her medication and that its bad for her...
her meds do work, in fact she was getting better until she came back from sleeping over at her boyfriends this weekend,
even last weekend she returned home very manic again after she slept over at her boyfriends place...so i know this for a fact, her boyfriend has been convincing her not to take her meds, and she listens to him
her breasts were leaking a few days ago and shes not taking her anti-physcotic medication ever since this weekend spent at her boyfriends, and now shes back home and MANIC MANIC MANIC...
she says it will giver her breast cancer and thats why she doesnt want to take it,
yet she smokes a pack of cigs a day
Reply:A ton of bi-polars never want to take their meds. I think you should talk to her bf and tell him how she acts when she gets home and that she needs to take them, or have ur parents kick her out if she doesnt comply. I know its hard but she shouldnt be ruining everyone elses life. Seriously sit her down and tell her shes acting psychotic and try to find a solution from here. Stay strong and good luck.
Reply:Tell her that smoking is enough to give her cancer so if she wants to prevent cancer then she should consider stop smoking. Tell her that she%26#039;s hurting the family and she needs her meds. If her boyfriend disagrees then she should stay with him!!! maybe he%26#039;ll reconsider on how bad the medication is!!
Reply:you really can%26#039;t force her to take her meds. she needs to want to take her meds. you need to sit and talk to the boyfriend and see why he doesn%26#039;t want her to take her meds. you also need to tell him that she needs to take her meds. if she is a threat to herself or anyone else you need to call someone and have her hospitalized. if the boyfriend won%26#039;t accept the fact that she needs the meds then its time to find a way to get rid of the boyfriend. she needs to be in a clear state of mind and on her meds and then you need to talk to her and tell her what kind of harm he is doing to her by telling her she doesn%26#039;t need her meds. I%26#039;m bi-polar and i have never used meds, but i have been through years of counseling and i meditate and i pray and i have a great support system of family and friends. Good luck to you all!
Reply:You need to have a sit down with your sister, fiance, and her doctor to discuss the situation and an alternative treatment plan.
her meds do work, in fact she was getting better until she came back from sleeping over at her boyfriends this weekend,
even last weekend she returned home very manic again after she slept over at her boyfriends place...so i know this for a fact, her boyfriend has been convincing her not to take her meds, and she listens to him
her breasts were leaking a few days ago and shes not taking her anti-physcotic medication ever since this weekend spent at her boyfriends, and now shes back home and MANIC MANIC MANIC...
she says it will giver her breast cancer and thats why she doesnt want to take it,
yet she smokes a pack of cigs a day
Reply:A ton of bi-polars never want to take their meds. I think you should talk to her bf and tell him how she acts when she gets home and that she needs to take them, or have ur parents kick her out if she doesnt comply. I know its hard but she shouldnt be ruining everyone elses life. Seriously sit her down and tell her shes acting psychotic and try to find a solution from here. Stay strong and good luck.
Reply:Tell her that smoking is enough to give her cancer so if she wants to prevent cancer then she should consider stop smoking. Tell her that she%26#039;s hurting the family and she needs her meds. If her boyfriend disagrees then she should stay with him!!! maybe he%26#039;ll reconsider on how bad the medication is!!
Reply:you really can%26#039;t force her to take her meds. she needs to want to take her meds. you need to sit and talk to the boyfriend and see why he doesn%26#039;t want her to take her meds. you also need to tell him that she needs to take her meds. if she is a threat to herself or anyone else you need to call someone and have her hospitalized. if the boyfriend won%26#039;t accept the fact that she needs the meds then its time to find a way to get rid of the boyfriend. she needs to be in a clear state of mind and on her meds and then you need to talk to her and tell her what kind of harm he is doing to her by telling her she doesn%26#039;t need her meds. I%26#039;m bi-polar and i have never used meds, but i have been through years of counseling and i meditate and i pray and i have a great support system of family and friends. Good luck to you all!
Reply:You need to have a sit down with your sister, fiance, and her doctor to discuss the situation and an alternative treatment plan.
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