My husband spends hours staring into his eyes in the mirror?

443>He%26#039;s not on LSD but he sure acts like it.


His eyes are not like other people%26#039;s. This sounds wierd but have you ever looked at goat%26#039;s eyes or snakes? His eyes look unfocussed and they don%26#039;t dilate unless he%26#039;s raging.


He frowns a lot, really angry, he says he%26#039;s %26quot;irritable%26quot;, he blows up out of the blue. He went to couple counseling once, didn%26#039;t say a word, the doctor gave him anti-depressants, told me my husband was not going to get better. Later my husband said he didn%26#039;t believe in psychology.


When he kisses me, I feel repulsed. He covers my nose by jamming his nose against mine so I can%26#039;r breathe. I told him but he keps doing this. He touches me very impersonally, like he%26#039;s focussed just on his body. There%26#039;s more but maybe you can explain what%26#039;s happening.


Fifteen years ago he was more relaxed.


I have a daughter, I am disabled from cancer and have no family.


Thanks to all.
Reply:Most likely paranoid schizophrenic. Be VERY careful. I have observed that paranoid schizophrenic eyes will change before they go %26quot;off%26quot;. He may be narscistic as well if he is very into looking at himself, or he may be aware of the change in his personality or be fighting listening to the voices in his head.





The way you are feeling is a big wake up call that something is seriously wrong with this man and that he may be a great danger to you. Please go to a counselor yourself if he will not go. This man is Definitely mentally ill and you are in danger.








I work in a residential treatment center and have delt with paranoids. I was also attacked and assaulted by one in the past - please be careful - we are talking about your life.
Reply:You may want to read up on schizophrenia, it is often genetic, like if he has a parent that is, he has a 50 percent chance of being one. Report It

Reply:hes a reptilian!!
Reply:Why did you marry this guy? I don%26#039;t hear any reasons in the world why you should stay with him.
Reply:narcissisistic and bi polar?.. %26#039;belying self-image%26#039; is a sin..seems you need to bail. or point out to him the err of his ways..
Reply:he is...


DOWNSYNDROME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Has his eyes always been that way? Did his %26quot;irratability%26quot; start when his eyes changed? About how long ago did this start? Also, how long have you been disabled b/c of cancer?





I don%26#039;t know those things but based on what I read I believe that maybe he is doing drugs. Or possibly he has had some kind of traumatic event that has caused him to kind of disconnect himself from others. I don%26#039;t want to sound mean or anything, I%26#039;m just trying to cover all the angles. Another possibility is that when you became disabled he was fine with it at first but now he realizes things are way different and he has to be more independent and has to pick up alot of the work that you did all the time which causes more stress. If so he probably wants to move on with his life but he realizes you and your daughter need someone there to help out. So that could be the reason he isn%26#039;t as caring or nurturing as he used to be. Again, I%26#039;m just covering the angles so please don%26#039;t be upset with me. But if I saw someone staring into their own eyes in the mirror for hours I would seriously believe either 1 they have had some serious traumatic experience causing them to dissassociate themselves from everyone else or they are on drugs. If you have more info and want to ask anything else feel free to email me.








I just thought about one more thing:


He could be possessed. Do y%26#039;all go to church and etc? If not you might want to hit up a church and have the church pray for him.
Reply:Like JOHN B says, he doesn%26#039;t sound human.


What is his religion? If he%26#039;s an occultist, your in deep ****.
Reply:sounds a little bit like mutiple personality disorder.