Why is having sex with the same gender considered anti-family?

116>I've never quite figured this out. It's not like people who enjoy sex with the same gender don't have families and don't have biological offspring of their own. I thought maybe since the gay sex doesn't produce children, that makes it anti-offspring and therefore anti-family (meaning that adoption, etcetera, doesn't equal family), but that would mean any heterosexual act that doesn't produce children is anti-family, which doesn't make sense. So what's with terms like "pro-family" and "anti-family." If I get felated, am I somehow protesting against heterosexual marriage? That means that people who can't produce biological offspring can never have sex, for instance post menopausal women or people who have had their reproductive organs removed for whatever reasons. So menopausal grandma widow Mary and prostate cancer survivor grandpa widower Joe can't consummate their heterosexual marriage or else they're considered anti-family. Do they think that people will catch gay?
Reply:It is considered anti-family because of fear and ignorance. Family can be anyone. My partner and I are raising my daughter and we are a family.In todays blended society people need to drop the," you don't fit the stereotype" attitude and just let people be people. If you feel like a family than you are a family. A family is a central unit in which the members care for each other and love each other. Everyone contributes to the whole. I know a lot of heterosexual "families" that don't do that.
Reply:It's just words that flame fires. They really mean nothing.
Reply:lol. stop confusing yourself. i see what you mean but no. its just like saying people who use condoms(which is common) are "anti-family". so uhh again umm i'd say no............
Reply:It's only considered that by people whose opinions should not matter in the first place.Don't get caught up in what other people think. Opinions are like a**holes everyone has one unless your a republican.
Reply:You're thinking too much into it. All it is, is homophobic propaganda. It is, at best, additional rhetoric to attempt to get more people to be anti-gay; when in reality, you're right: there is nothing that makes heterosexual sex with a condom pro-family.





And just saying "because its wrong" doesnt answer the question as to why gay sex is considered anti-family. If you have such strong ideas on the subject why dont you enlighten me and answer the question, rather than just blowing it off as something universally wrong. And, who the F*CK made you the decider of what is right and wrong; mind your own business!
Reply:In someways, I see gays/lesbians et al. as extremely pro-family. My partner and I have 3 wonderful children 11 and twin 3yo. Yes, we are a blended family. Yet, for many, to have children has to be a conscious choice. We have to decide we want kids, be willing to go to work to get pregnant (find a sperm donor/surrogate, to go through the procedures to get pregnant, ect., then and only then can we have our family. Yes, there are many out there who have children from previous het relationships, but for us, we have to be committed to having a family and children...anyway that's my view.
Reply:I think people believe that gay is anti-family becase it goes against what the bible tells Christians...homosexuality and incest is highly frowned upon in the bible.





Mostly I think people are scared of what they do not understand.





Personally, I am not against same sex marriage and politically support same sex marriage. I have a lot of gay and bisexual friends. I love them all for who they are. I love to see any of my friends happy. And if a female friend of mine wanted to marry her girlfriend, I think no one should stand in their way. They become ONE FAMILY. Same sex partners are FAMILY. They can adopt or have children with sperm/egg donors. Their children become part of their FAMILY.





Ask yourself these questions..... Who are we to madate how you choose who is a part of your FAMILY? Who are we to tell someone who they have to love or how?





The answer....... We do should not have the right to persecute based upon gender identity or sexual preference.
Reply:because it is wrong.

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