484>He was very clever when we got married, he stipulated in our marriage contract that when we divorce I will walk out as if the marriage never took place. I am so deep in debt, my mother found out a month ago she has cancer, my father is an alcoholic. I have nothing, I started looking for a job today......what am I going to do with my life. Why after two weeks do I feel this way, I want to scream and cry, I have been on anti depressant, because of him, I went of them end of last year with dreadful withdrawals and no support from him, but why does he say he loves me and will do anything for me, he is not always abusive. Am I loosing my mind, is he really a bad person for doing it once to me. Its ease for evryone to say GET OUT.
I don%26#039;t know, I know its wrong, we have had a hard marriage from the word go, there were always a third person involved, is this a sign to get out, I am terrified of making a choice, that will be best for my children, growing up with out a father. I am going mad!!
Reply:What is best for your kids is not to be around two people who can not get along. If he is hurting you, take the kids and go to an abused woman%26#039;s shelter. He won%26#039;t know where you are. I%26#039;m sorry your parents are not doing well, but you might want to focus on helping your kids right now, as they depend on you. You know in your heart that is the right thing to do no matter how hard it is to leave him, staying might kill you.
Here is a link I found on google: http://www.abusedadultresourcecenter.com...
Reply:YOu need a good lawyer. You have a contract that says %26quot;when%26quot; you divorce? As in, he knew it would happen? Or does the contract state that if you leave, you leave the marriage as if it never happened? I bet it doesn%26#039;t say anything about if he abuses you as the cause of your leaving... This is where a good lawyer can help you out. Since you have children, there is no way for the marriage to end in the fashion he describes. True, you may not be entitled to property, etc., but he will have to pay child support, etc. This marriage existed, whether he likes it or not.
Reply:By staying in this marriage you are hurting your kids as much as you are hurting yourself. Find a good shelter. They might be able to help you find a good attorney to help you with your case. The longer you stay in a bad relationship the worse it can get. Do yourself and you kids a favor. GET OUT NOW
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