516>hi. Im 21 years old. i have a 1 1/2 year old son. and i've had this rash on my breast. its itchy, scaly, and very sensitive to touch.it waters and sometimes bleeds where it sticks onto my bra. I;ve tried using priscribed cortison cream, itll help for like a day but it never got rid of the problem. i had it for about 3 years now looking past the thought of breast cancer. at first i had a small pimple like rash on my right breast. and then a year later my right nipple got covered in the rash. then my left nipple. its only on my areola though. ive heard some stories about paget's disease. and breast cancer. im very confused and scared. if someone knows about this or is going through it please help me. I dont have insurance. so i am not sure where im supposed to go get checkked up. im not sure if i should go to a dermatology first? or get a biopsy?
thanks a lot you guys.
Reply:Your symptoms do fall under a type of breast cancer, called Inflammatory Breast Cancer or IBC (Paget's Disease is a type of this). But having IBC for 3 years is not typical. IBC is also hard to diagnose because doctors see it so rarely and can be dismissed as an infection, which is the more typical result for this problem.
The investigation path for a symptom like this is to:
1. Visit your doctor or dermatologist
2. Explain and show your symptoms
3. It is likely they will prescribe an antibiotic. If the rash doesn't go away after two weeks, you should...
4. have a sample of your skin tested by doing a biopsy. A biopsy is the *only* way to diagnose that it isn't cancerous. If the rash doesn't clear up, you must insist on getting this.
Sounds like you have done your homework, now it's time to visit your doctor and get this question off your mind. All the best! Be positive!
Have a look at these links below for visuals and more information.
Reply:You definitely need to get this checked out. I would suggest a women's health clinic, they can help you with any financial issues (lack of insurance) as well. This would be a very odd presentation of cancer. Don't know what it is however. See a primary care doctor first and they can refer you to a specialist if needed.
Best of luck
Reply:No, I dont think you have to worry about breast cancer, Are you breast feeding? if you are this could be the issue, you also could be allergic to the bras you wear, or the detergent that you use, but it looks like if you was it would be all over,also could be yeast infection, you might try vit. e on the areas and wash and keep them dry. if it dont clear up then you can go to health dept. they will help you. I would recommend Mycolog cream or something similar. Hope you get better soon.
Reply:Jenn, I don't think it's cancer, I think you have contact dermatitis from your bra. Paget's is a cancer of the nipple, and you're much to young for this relatively uncommon illness. If this were a true inflammatory carcinoma, you wouldn't survive for 3 years in such good health. I can imagine that without insurance, the dermatologist will cost you a ton of money, but you need at least a medium potency steroid cream to control this and you can only get this by prescription.
Reply:Breast cancer is overwhelmingly a female disease, but about 1% of cases occur in men (around 300 per year in the UK). Amongst women it becomes more common as age increases. More than 80% of cases occur in women over 50. Taking the contraceptive pill slightly increases the risk. Taking hormone replacement therapy significantly increases your risk somewhat more, but the health benefits derived from hormone replacement are better overall. Obesity and heavy drinking also significantly increase the risk.
Reply:GET A BIOPSY DONE QUICKLY ,I WILL PRAY TO GOD FOR YOU.MY MOTHER HAD BONE MARROW CANCER AND I HAD TO DROP OUT OF COLLEGE TO LOOK AFTER HER.I KNOW HOW YOU MUST FEEL,CANCER IS A HORRIBLE DISEASE BUT THANKFULLY BREAST CANCER CAN BE CURED IF IT IS DETECTED IN STAGE 1.
Reply:It's extremely rare for someone as young as you are to have breast cancer, but it's not unheard of.
This sounds to me as if it is some kind of dermatitis, but you DO need to get it checked out, all and any changes to the breasts need to be investigated. I'm sorry, I don't live in America and I'm not able to advise on where you should go for this, but I can give you these two links where you will find a lot of information and be able to ask questions
http://www.breastcancer.org
http://www.breastcancercare.org.uk
Best wishes to you
Reply:It is rare for someone as young as you are to have breast cancer, but it is not impossible.
By the sound of your descrption it is some kind of dermatitis, but to appease yourself, you DO need to get it checked out,
Any changes to the breasts as precautionary best to be investigated.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Breast Cancer?
515>I am 24 (will be November 9) I have large breasts (DD) (very close to DDD) I started my first menstruation at the age of 9. and well my question is, I have read that women who start (Menstruation) early are more likely to get breast cancer. is this true? should I be worried? I've just found out how to do a BSE (Breast Self-Exam) and will start to. Thanks for any of your information. ( Also if you have had Breast Cancer, What do you go through? Mentally and Physically?)
Thank you so much.
xoxo
Reply:I'm a breast cancer survivor and I wish I had asked this question early in life. Here's what I learned after the fact.
Breast size doesn't matter. Beginning menstruation early in life CAN be an indication that your risk is greater but the jury is out on that.
FAMILY HISTORY is a big consideration. If your maternal relatives (in particular) have had breast cancer you should ask for genetic testing. The BRACA I AND II screens for the genes that cause breast cancer and ovarian cancer. Here's a link that explains: http://www.labtestsonline.org/understand...
DIET also plays a role in risk for breast cancer. A woman who eats a low fat diet and tries to avoid the hormones sometimes found in certain meats (such as beef) reduce their risk greatly. Here's a link that discusses this and other sources of potentially harmful hormones in foods: http://www.organicconsumers.org/Toxic/ho...
Here is a good site for all sorts of facts about breast cancer. It's very well done and it's sponsored by the American Cancer Society: http://www.getbcfacts.com/index.asp?sour...
Here's another that give general facts in an easy to understand language: http://www.cancer.org/docroot/PED/conten...
Reply:God bless you (and your friend) as well, and thanks for the blessing. Report It
Reply:no i don't believe but keep doing the self exam but by all mean talk to your doctor he can answer most of your uestions.good luck
Reply:This is my personal opinion but I despise the cancer foundations and cancer awareness groups. They amass billions of dollars under the guise of searching for the cure for cancer and the vast majority of their proceeds go toward paying six figure salaries to people and staff that are nothing more than professional fund raisers. I suggest you make your inquiries to this site with an open mind toward a real cure. http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Her...
Reply:My sister-in-law who is flat chested, never smoked, doesn't drink alchol, rarely drinks caffine, is a healthy weight, just found out she has breast cancer...so sometimes you can do all the right things %26amp; still......... I believe it has more to do with family history on the mothers side. Just keep doing the self exams %26amp; never hesitate to ask questions.
Reply:i found that when you start thinking heavy thoughts like this;make sure you have your friends around you,because what ever your conclusion it will hurt more if you have no one there for support.
Reply:1.www.yapstuff.org
2.www.breastcancer.org
3.www.komen.org
please see the above webs for correct infermation only,do not
feel you have the disease .god is great,he will give you all his
grace on you.
Reply:You shouldn't worry! If you are still worried see a docter and ask him/ her questions about it.
Thank you so much.
xoxo
Reply:I'm a breast cancer survivor and I wish I had asked this question early in life. Here's what I learned after the fact.
Breast size doesn't matter. Beginning menstruation early in life CAN be an indication that your risk is greater but the jury is out on that.
FAMILY HISTORY is a big consideration. If your maternal relatives (in particular) have had breast cancer you should ask for genetic testing. The BRACA I AND II screens for the genes that cause breast cancer and ovarian cancer. Here's a link that explains: http://www.labtestsonline.org/understand...
DIET also plays a role in risk for breast cancer. A woman who eats a low fat diet and tries to avoid the hormones sometimes found in certain meats (such as beef) reduce their risk greatly. Here's a link that discusses this and other sources of potentially harmful hormones in foods: http://www.organicconsumers.org/Toxic/ho...
Here is a good site for all sorts of facts about breast cancer. It's very well done and it's sponsored by the American Cancer Society: http://www.getbcfacts.com/index.asp?sour...
Here's another that give general facts in an easy to understand language: http://www.cancer.org/docroot/PED/conten...
Reply:God bless you (and your friend) as well, and thanks for the blessing. Report It
Reply:no i don't believe but keep doing the self exam but by all mean talk to your doctor he can answer most of your uestions.good luck
Reply:This is my personal opinion but I despise the cancer foundations and cancer awareness groups. They amass billions of dollars under the guise of searching for the cure for cancer and the vast majority of their proceeds go toward paying six figure salaries to people and staff that are nothing more than professional fund raisers. I suggest you make your inquiries to this site with an open mind toward a real cure. http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Her...
Reply:My sister-in-law who is flat chested, never smoked, doesn't drink alchol, rarely drinks caffine, is a healthy weight, just found out she has breast cancer...so sometimes you can do all the right things %26amp; still......... I believe it has more to do with family history on the mothers side. Just keep doing the self exams %26amp; never hesitate to ask questions.
Reply:i found that when you start thinking heavy thoughts like this;make sure you have your friends around you,because what ever your conclusion it will hurt more if you have no one there for support.
Reply:1.www.yapstuff.org
2.www.breastcancer.org
3.www.komen.org
please see the above webs for correct infermation only,do not
feel you have the disease .god is great,he will give you all his
grace on you.
Reply:You shouldn't worry! If you are still worried see a docter and ask him/ her questions about it.
Breast cancer?
514>i am going thru breast cancer. my daughter is 10. is there a test to see if she carries the gene. as far as i know, breast cancer does not run in the family. what does this mean and what are the chances of my daughter developing breast cancer. thank you.
Reply:dont be afraid....my mom had breast cancer..and we got through it, we had rough times, im her 13 year old daughter..i think i hve ur answer. well ur daughter will check if she has breast cancer half the age u recieved breast cancer. so if you are 36 and hve breast cancer ur daughter will be checked wen she is 13...or if u are 46 and hve breast cancer ur daughter will be 23 wen she is going to be checked...my family didnt really hve anybody who had breast cancer too, i kno how you feel =) people like us have to stick together you and ur daughter will get through it the same way me and my mom did!! good luck!!
Reply:Only 10% of breast cancer is genetic.
My family has a very strong history of breast %26amp; ovarian cancer.
I was diagnosed with breast cancer age 31.
Have since had a gene test %26amp; has been confirmed that I do have the gene.
ensure your health %26amp; or life insurance is in check, before u get test Report It
Reply:Everything I've seen and heard finds only a weak link in genetic transmission. It is entirely possible that your breast cancer was due to environmental factors and not genetics, which would mean that your daughter is not at significant risk.
Good luck to you in your efforts to recover, and I certainly wish you the best!
Reply:There is some evidence that some families have a higher risk of cancer of some types than others. The issue is controversial at best.
I recommend you read Beating Cancer With Nutrition by Pat Quillen, and How to Prevent and Treat Cancer with Natural Medicine by Mike Murray. They are full of good advice on how to reduce your risks and deal with problems if you have the disease. Prevention is easier than treatment by a wide margin.
Good luck and God bless!
Reply:I don't know about the test but I read this article about reducing risk of breast cancer in girls.
http://www.informationonbreastcancer.inf...
Reply:my grandma had cancer my mom had cancer and the doctors told me i have a 90 % chance so i have breast cancer . where mom and grandama had a different kind of cancer. said my daughters would have a 60% chance of having it.breast cancer did not run in my family either...just the cancer cells.
Reply:there is a genetic possibility that your daughter may get breast cancer when she is older, but first you must understand the implications of getting a test to see if she has the gene. what if the test come back positive. would she be willing to have a double mastectomy to prevent her from getting breast cancer. this is the only way she could prevent getting breast cancer if the answer is no then there would be no point in having the test done .instead she would just have to be very vigilant and check her breast often and take the chance that she does not get it. sorry it is a negative answer as such but consideration must be given to the implications of such a drastic action. good luck.
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Reply:dont be afraid....my mom had breast cancer..and we got through it, we had rough times, im her 13 year old daughter..i think i hve ur answer. well ur daughter will check if she has breast cancer half the age u recieved breast cancer. so if you are 36 and hve breast cancer ur daughter will be checked wen she is 13...or if u are 46 and hve breast cancer ur daughter will be 23 wen she is going to be checked...my family didnt really hve anybody who had breast cancer too, i kno how you feel =) people like us have to stick together you and ur daughter will get through it the same way me and my mom did!! good luck!!
Reply:Only 10% of breast cancer is genetic.
My family has a very strong history of breast %26amp; ovarian cancer.
I was diagnosed with breast cancer age 31.
Have since had a gene test %26amp; has been confirmed that I do have the gene.
ensure your health %26amp; or life insurance is in check, before u get test Report It
Reply:Everything I've seen and heard finds only a weak link in genetic transmission. It is entirely possible that your breast cancer was due to environmental factors and not genetics, which would mean that your daughter is not at significant risk.
Good luck to you in your efforts to recover, and I certainly wish you the best!
Reply:There is some evidence that some families have a higher risk of cancer of some types than others. The issue is controversial at best.
I recommend you read Beating Cancer With Nutrition by Pat Quillen, and How to Prevent and Treat Cancer with Natural Medicine by Mike Murray. They are full of good advice on how to reduce your risks and deal with problems if you have the disease. Prevention is easier than treatment by a wide margin.
Good luck and God bless!
Reply:I don't know about the test but I read this article about reducing risk of breast cancer in girls.
http://www.informationonbreastcancer.inf...
Reply:my grandma had cancer my mom had cancer and the doctors told me i have a 90 % chance so i have breast cancer . where mom and grandama had a different kind of cancer. said my daughters would have a 60% chance of having it.breast cancer did not run in my family either...just the cancer cells.
Reply:there is a genetic possibility that your daughter may get breast cancer when she is older, but first you must understand the implications of getting a test to see if she has the gene. what if the test come back positive. would she be willing to have a double mastectomy to prevent her from getting breast cancer. this is the only way she could prevent getting breast cancer if the answer is no then there would be no point in having the test done .instead she would just have to be very vigilant and check her breast often and take the chance that she does not get it. sorry it is a negative answer as such but consideration must be given to the implications of such a drastic action. good luck.
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Breast cancer?
513>Breast cancer?
ok i was watching Scrubs, I know it's not a reliable source but i had to ask...one patient was having pain in her aoreole [i assume it's the nipple] and the "doctor" said it was breast cancer...is there a link between pain in the aoreole and breast cancer? i'm asking because well my left nipple is hurting me but i'm about to have my period also
Reply:No. I wouldn't jump to breast cancer, but I'm really not sure. Your nipples and breasts are probably just tender because of your upcoming period.
Reply:Don't know about that, but Scrubs is hilarious. You watched the one on Comedy Central? We're about to the new season, I hope JD and Elliot end up together. Anyway, have it checked out, sorry I couldn't help.
ok i was watching Scrubs, I know it's not a reliable source but i had to ask...one patient was having pain in her aoreole [i assume it's the nipple] and the "doctor" said it was breast cancer...is there a link between pain in the aoreole and breast cancer? i'm asking because well my left nipple is hurting me but i'm about to have my period also
Reply:No. I wouldn't jump to breast cancer, but I'm really not sure. Your nipples and breasts are probably just tender because of your upcoming period.
Reply:Don't know about that, but Scrubs is hilarious. You watched the one on Comedy Central? We're about to the new season, I hope JD and Elliot end up together. Anyway, have it checked out, sorry I couldn't help.
Breast Cancer?!?!?
512>I am very concerened that I have breast cancer.
I am only 14 years old and I am told it is not common for someone so younge to have breast cancer. Is this true?
I am so confused to if these are symptoms:
One of the bumps around my nipple is brown.
On the part of the nipple a baby would suck on, there is a unusual shaped bump.
I think I may have breast dimpling. I have a few tiny red dots, is that dimpleing?
I have sore breasts but I am told that this may be just cause my breasts are growing
Feeling of nasuea A LOT.
Just to let you know, it is not possible I am pregnant, as I am a virgin.
So, are these symptoms?
I am very scared. I told my mother but she is convinced I do not have it.
Reply:It is EXTREMELY rare for someone your age to have breast cancer; 80% of breast cancer cases occur in women over 50.
The symptoms you describe aren't breast cancer symptoms; what you describe isn't dimpling, your soreness is hormonal, and nausea isn't a breast cancer symptom.
However you need to put your mind at rest and stop worrying. Take k's excellent advice and see your doctor.
Reply:It is fairly uncommon to have breast cancer at such a young age but it isn't impossible. You probably don't have it, but if you're really concerned, you should see your doctor
Reply:You may want to go to webmd.com or some profession symptom sites and if that doesn't help you may want to bring it up at your next doctors appointment or have your mom make you one if you feel it is really urgent. Hope you feel better. : D
Reply:its unlikely you have breast cancer
the nausea might be hormonal related or because of your worrying
dimpling means just that- it looks like a indentation ( like a dimple)
ask your Mom to teach you monthly breast self exams
Reply:# 1 It is very rare for a 14 year old girl to have breast cancer
# 2 You should see a doctor, not because I nor anyone on this site thinks you have cancer but because you are unsure of the changes you are experiencing.
# 3 You are stressed and scared and various opinions by people and online sites can only add to your stress because without an actual physical exam, they can't say for sure what is wrong with you.
# 4 Your body is changing, your hormones are in full gear and it's all new. So my advice as a nurse and a woman is to see your doctor. A doctor can teach about your body's changes, what to look for and actually do a hand's on exam to determine what exactly is happening to your breasts.
Good Luck
Reply:The nausea is probably caused by the fact that you are worried. Odds are it's not cancer BUT try and convince your mom to take you to the doctor anyway. You are obviously very worried and a doctor's visit should help ease your mind. Plus a check up at your age is a good idea since your body is going through changes.
Reply:well i can't help u cuz i am scared myslef
i am about ur age and i feel as if i do have b.c
but i am praying that i don't so good luck
I am only 14 years old and I am told it is not common for someone so younge to have breast cancer. Is this true?
I am so confused to if these are symptoms:
One of the bumps around my nipple is brown.
On the part of the nipple a baby would suck on, there is a unusual shaped bump.
I think I may have breast dimpling. I have a few tiny red dots, is that dimpleing?
I have sore breasts but I am told that this may be just cause my breasts are growing
Feeling of nasuea A LOT.
Just to let you know, it is not possible I am pregnant, as I am a virgin.
So, are these symptoms?
I am very scared. I told my mother but she is convinced I do not have it.
Reply:It is EXTREMELY rare for someone your age to have breast cancer; 80% of breast cancer cases occur in women over 50.
The symptoms you describe aren't breast cancer symptoms; what you describe isn't dimpling, your soreness is hormonal, and nausea isn't a breast cancer symptom.
However you need to put your mind at rest and stop worrying. Take k's excellent advice and see your doctor.
Reply:It is fairly uncommon to have breast cancer at such a young age but it isn't impossible. You probably don't have it, but if you're really concerned, you should see your doctor
Reply:You may want to go to webmd.com or some profession symptom sites and if that doesn't help you may want to bring it up at your next doctors appointment or have your mom make you one if you feel it is really urgent. Hope you feel better. : D
Reply:its unlikely you have breast cancer
the nausea might be hormonal related or because of your worrying
dimpling means just that- it looks like a indentation ( like a dimple)
ask your Mom to teach you monthly breast self exams
Reply:# 1 It is very rare for a 14 year old girl to have breast cancer
# 2 You should see a doctor, not because I nor anyone on this site thinks you have cancer but because you are unsure of the changes you are experiencing.
# 3 You are stressed and scared and various opinions by people and online sites can only add to your stress because without an actual physical exam, they can't say for sure what is wrong with you.
# 4 Your body is changing, your hormones are in full gear and it's all new. So my advice as a nurse and a woman is to see your doctor. A doctor can teach about your body's changes, what to look for and actually do a hand's on exam to determine what exactly is happening to your breasts.
Good Luck
Reply:The nausea is probably caused by the fact that you are worried. Odds are it's not cancer BUT try and convince your mom to take you to the doctor anyway. You are obviously very worried and a doctor's visit should help ease your mind. Plus a check up at your age is a good idea since your body is going through changes.
Reply:well i can't help u cuz i am scared myslef
i am about ur age and i feel as if i do have b.c
but i am praying that i don't so good luck
Breast Cancer?!?
511>I'm worried that I have breast cancer... i got checked a couple months ago, the doc. just felt my breast for lumps and he didnt find anything but... a few months ago i noticed my nipple was shaped kinda weird and then yesturday i noticed the same thing. But it doesnt look like that all the time, it comes and goes. I am very worried. Also, I dont really know my biological dad and his family so I dont know if breast cancer runs on his side of the family or not. But on my moms side I dont think it does. Could it be breast cancer? ... I'm 19 and my cup size is 36C if that helps with anything.
Reply:GO see the doctor of urs and tell hi/her to explain this abnormallities! thats wat i'd do
good luck
Reply:I don't know exactly. Its rare in women as young as you. Usually, when someone finds a lump, as far as I'm concerned, it stays there. Its not something that comes and goes. But please, go see a doctor just incase. Don't worry though. Its likely to be harmless.
Reply:GO see the doctor of urs and tell hi/her to explain this abnormallities! thats wat i'd do
good luck
Reply:I don't know exactly. Its rare in women as young as you. Usually, when someone finds a lump, as far as I'm concerned, it stays there. Its not something that comes and goes. But please, go see a doctor just incase. Don't worry though. Its likely to be harmless.
Pillar of strength is crumpling?
510>History, non - cancer brain tumor removed 5 years ago, multi meds to function in life. Still has trouble with hearing complete speech, sometimes a word or two is missing. Married 26 years, we love each other dearly but when ever I try to discuss sex she closes off to me. When I offer other methods of being close to each other am treated like I am a pervert. Have been to all the doctors, been to counseling, I believe in my marriage vows and remember what if it was me whom had the medical problem. Never know when I return home from work if it will be like walking egg shells or if she will have a hug and I love you for me. Between the mood shifts, anti depressions, pain killers and other meds, I can't compete. Am the pillar of strength for the family but each day I feel more and more alone. I try to talk with my wife but get shut out and the few times she opens up if the subject becomes to personal she closes me out. What can I do, is this my life now for the next 30 years ........
Reply:Get into counseling. you both need to see the world from the other's perspective. You need to know exactly what this whole thing is making her feel and she needs to know that just because she had the medical problem, doesn't mean that it doesn't affect you.
Reply:you need a support group for sure and counseling with someone who understands this type of situation.....go alone if she won't go with you;
Reply:so pick a spring to drink but dont piss on it! I will ask Papa Tiger to take me away. Be sure He will, He cant resist. Here true bhakta - cries so loud and passionate that He cant refuse. Crazy in love, just like me. Dont **** up or you will be ******. Promise you....pick a spring and drink, **** for real not in brain. it is soo pathetic
Reply:I have been where you are now . My husband was ill for 5 years before he died and I felt all alone . We stopped having any sexual relationship for the last five years of his life and it was really hard to deal with all the meds ,mood swings and ect.... Find someone to talk to , clergy, counselor just someone because you are both suffering and she may have guilty feelings and feel she is not a complete woman . This may be the reason for her intimacy issues . Find someone you can both talk to and it will help. Good luck.
Reply:When my mother was injured in a car accident, her mood had changed severely because she could no longer operate independently. When a life changes it takes ones love to compensate for another even when the road gets tough. How did I get through it, I remembered a story in the Bible about a young woman named Ruth. She made a promise to her mother-in-law that despite everything around her, she was going to care for this woman.
Most women are very sexual creatures, no matter the age, this one refused to chase after men in her prime. After a lot of time and hard work in the fields, the tide had turned and she got what she needed because she did not desire it. This very thing worked for me as well.
I will tell you a little bit more, do as Jesus did and get away from it all whenever you feel the weight of the world on your shoulders. Go to the movies, go to the park, walk the dog, or to shows; her situation is not there to kill you. Now that God has her in his hands and he is watching how you will react. So plan on going on a vacation, and get a house sitter if she cannot move.
I sat in misery for a year and a half before I decided to dedicate myself to more than just her and my promise. Believe me, it will cheer you up too. Because when the heart lightens, so will the soul and that allows for a new level of understanding and socialbility.
Love others as you love yourself and speak regardless of their mood. A Thanks is more powerful than any curse. It adds years of good health to your life. I'm basically saying go outside and shout to the people that you love them. It works.
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Reply:Get into counseling. you both need to see the world from the other's perspective. You need to know exactly what this whole thing is making her feel and she needs to know that just because she had the medical problem, doesn't mean that it doesn't affect you.
Reply:you need a support group for sure and counseling with someone who understands this type of situation.....go alone if she won't go with you;
Reply:so pick a spring to drink but dont piss on it! I will ask Papa Tiger to take me away. Be sure He will, He cant resist. Here true bhakta - cries so loud and passionate that He cant refuse. Crazy in love, just like me. Dont **** up or you will be ******. Promise you....pick a spring and drink, **** for real not in brain. it is soo pathetic
Reply:I have been where you are now . My husband was ill for 5 years before he died and I felt all alone . We stopped having any sexual relationship for the last five years of his life and it was really hard to deal with all the meds ,mood swings and ect.... Find someone to talk to , clergy, counselor just someone because you are both suffering and she may have guilty feelings and feel she is not a complete woman . This may be the reason for her intimacy issues . Find someone you can both talk to and it will help. Good luck.
Reply:When my mother was injured in a car accident, her mood had changed severely because she could no longer operate independently. When a life changes it takes ones love to compensate for another even when the road gets tough. How did I get through it, I remembered a story in the Bible about a young woman named Ruth. She made a promise to her mother-in-law that despite everything around her, she was going to care for this woman.
Most women are very sexual creatures, no matter the age, this one refused to chase after men in her prime. After a lot of time and hard work in the fields, the tide had turned and she got what she needed because she did not desire it. This very thing worked for me as well.
I will tell you a little bit more, do as Jesus did and get away from it all whenever you feel the weight of the world on your shoulders. Go to the movies, go to the park, walk the dog, or to shows; her situation is not there to kill you. Now that God has her in his hands and he is watching how you will react. So plan on going on a vacation, and get a house sitter if she cannot move.
I sat in misery for a year and a half before I decided to dedicate myself to more than just her and my promise. Believe me, it will cheer you up too. Because when the heart lightens, so will the soul and that allows for a new level of understanding and socialbility.
Love others as you love yourself and speak regardless of their mood. A Thanks is more powerful than any curse. It adds years of good health to your life. I'm basically saying go outside and shout to the people that you love them. It works.
flower arrangements
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